1. Naughty is a child's nature and an action based on the desire to explore. You can't stop immediately if you are scolded.
The teacher has taken the initiative to talk to you several times, which shows that he is naughty to a certain extent! Parents should pay attention! Otherwise, you will become an uncontrollable Xiong Haizi. This must be understood first!
This naughty child should be said to be a promising child. If parents can give them proper guidance, it will not only make them stop playing pranks gradually, but also make them stand out.
2. Analyze the reasons for being naughty:
1, curiosity leads to "naughty". The typical characteristics of a child's personality are liveliness and curiosity. Children in early childhood are poor in knowledge, and many things are full of magic and mystery to them. Driven by curiosity, children are eager to know more things and hope that they can contact and try. Often, the more adults don't let them watch and do, the more children want to watch and do, while adults regard it as "naughty".
2, want to attract the attention of adults, deliberately naughty. Some children are expressive and like to attract the attention of adults. If some of them want to be praised, they often do things that adults don't welcome, which becomes "naughty" behavior.
3. "Naughty" caused by excess energy. With the growth of children's age, various abilities are constantly improved, but the environment and conditions provided by adults can't meet the needs of children, and the rest of children's energy is nowhere to be used, which will also lead to "naughty" behavior.
4. Conscious pranks Some children like to vent their dissatisfaction with conscious pranks.
Parents should observe more and see what kind it is. The right medicine! !
3. Countermeasures for naughty babies
1. It is good for children to be curious about things they don't understand. In fact, it is a kind of exploration and learning.
At this time, if adults just reprimand or attack, their thirst for knowledge will disappear and their budding self-confidence will be stifled. Adults should cherish children's curiosity, seize opportunities and guide children. On the one hand, they should introduce simple new knowledge to children to satisfy their curiosity and thirst for knowledge; On the other hand, be patient and reasonable, help children to be "naughty", and ask children not to affect adults' work and not to damage things. In this way, it can not only satisfy the child's curiosity, but also enable him to acquire new knowledge and form good behavior.
2. For children who want to attract the attention of adults, adults should put down what they are doing, care about him, listen to his demands, and then give him reasonable education, let the children know that adults care about him, and let him achieve psychological balance and comfort, and maintain correct behavior. More importantly, for such children, adults should pay more attention to their actions at ordinary times, try to prevent problems before they happen, try to lay a "vaccination" in advance, let him know that adults care about and pay attention to him and avoid causing his "naughty" behavior.
For children with excess energy, adults should create some conditions and opportunities for children, improve their ability to use their hands and brains, cultivate their good willpower and morality, and make their excess energy useful. Among them, it is very important for parents to guide their children's game activities.
Don't underestimate the baby's play. Your baby needs the guidance and moderate participation of parents. If you just buy a lot of toys for your baby, but don't teach him how to play, or adults don't play with your baby's toys at all, it will be difficult for your baby to get more "intellectual nutrition" from toys. Maybe he will just pile the building blocks together at sixes and sevens; Throw the ball blindly; He often plays a destructive role when others play dollhouse games; I can't sit down and patiently draw puzzles; Often, I can't stay idle for a while, but I don't know what he is busy with, jumping up and down, shouting and consuming my extra energy. In this way, it is difficult for the baby to get more fun from toys and games, but it will become an annoying "little troublemaker". Over time, it will not only affect the baby's intellectual development, but also affect the baby's personality.
For children who are consciously "naughty", adults can adopt the method of "cold treatment", neither beating nor scolding, and then point out his bad behavior and correct it after things calm down. You can also punish him with the method of "natural consequences", let him feel the consequences of his actions, let him remember the lessons and make up his mind to correct his mistakes.
The naughty attitude of parents towards their babies.
Don't rush to interfere with children's naughty behavior, try to distinguish between the nature and motivation of the behavior: pure naughty or exploratory behavior driven by curiosity, so as to decide whether to discourage or guide according to the situation.
Key point: Make a rule for your baby so that he can know what is right and wrong from an early age. This awareness has taken root in the baby's mind and will become his code of conduct and form self-discipline. The baby needs a boundary to let him know what can and can't be done.
Naughty, yes, as long as it is within the normal range. But connivance doesn't matter! !
No matter how naughty the child is, he should be polite, don't make trouble, obey the rules, respect others, and don't fight and call names! ! ! ! It depends on what parents do. Also, Xiong Haizi has doting grandparents. Don't indulge him at an early age! ! ! You know, it's easy to learn bad things when you are young, but can you manage a character that has been formally cultivated since childhood if you don't set good rules when you are young and rebel when you grow up? Learn from teachers or excellent parents and act immediately. I believe your children will be excellent, too! ! !
I hope to adopt it as the best answer!