In the process of Chongqing's urban transformation, there is a nail house that shocked the whole country. I think in everyone's mind, I am the nail house of Haitian School studying Disciples. Before I went to Nanjing to live in Meixin, I thought to myself, is it worth spending so much money to learn traditional culture? Embarked on the journey with such doubts. When I came to Nanjing, Jumeixin saw a five-day study course on the wall. I feel that my trip to Nanjing will be more cautious-because these courses have been studied at school, but after five days of study, I found that my original idea was wrong and I gained a lot. Summarized as follows:
I was deeply moved by the love of Jumeixin volunteers.
65438+1October 13 At 9: 00 pm, ten of us came to Jumeixin. As soon as they stepped into the gate, several volunteers greeted each other with smiles, carrying boxes, greeting and warmly receiving them. Then we immediately arranged for dinner and accommodation. After washing, we didn't go to bed until after 10. We unpacked the bedding to get ready for bed and used hot water bottles to keep warm. At 6: 30 the next morning, each group of tutors woke up each group of students one by one. On the first day of study, they came to the playground, and the tutors organized all groups of students to enter the stadium in an orderly manner. A row of volunteers bowed respectfully at the entrance of the conference hall to say hello to the students. When we arrived at the conference hall, all the groups were seated in an orderly manner, and rows of wooden seats were covered with plush cushions. During the break, the host warmly reminds the students to open the water cups, and the volunteers will add boiling water for you. During the break, they also prepared refreshments and fruits for the students. The instructor also led the students to do aerobics one after another. The subtlety lies in the truth. It can be said that on the first day of study, I was moved everywhere, and the warm service of volunteers warmed me.
Second, Gao Chong's personality shocked me.
During my five days in Nanjing Jumeixin to learn traditional greetings, many people shocked me. Especially when watching inherit the wind. Tian Xiuying's great maternal love of caring for her son who has been disabled by fire for more than ten years, helping her son to build up confidence and cultivate her son into a national outstanding talent deeply shocked me. Liu Su's sister has been helping people around her for decades, from donating blood for free to donating platelets, which has brought hope to many dying people. Her selfless dedication and helpful spirit once again deeply shocked me. In order to take care of his father who was paralyzed by illness, his brother Wang Xihai gave up a good opportunity to work abroad. Later, he even gave up his family and took care of his father alone for more than ten years, until his father passed away, from a handsome young man in his twenties to a middle-aged man of 47. It can be said that he dedicated the best time of his life to his father. The above three examples of great love and filial piety made my indifference change quietly, and I began to re-examine myself.
Third, the magic of traditional culture makes me re-examine myself.
During the five-day study of Nanjing Maxim Goose, I realized the importance of the environment. I used to study traditional culture at school, and I also studied Ms. Cai's CD every day. But when I was studying in Nanjing, although the content was the same, the learning environment was different and the learning effect was very different because of the different atmosphere. By studying Ms. Cai's happy life lecture, Mr. Wang's "As long as my heart is full of love, which child is not cute" by Ms. Liu Fang and so on. Let me calm down and think while studying and re-examine my life, what I have done and what I have failed in the past 40 years. I am a grumpy person. My wife and I have been married for seven years. At home, I am a male chauvinist and seldom take the initiative to do housework such as washing clothes and cooking. I think this is what women should do. I also have a small hobby-I like watching sports games, and I will occupy it as long as I have time. I never consider my wife's feelings. She has no interest in sports programs. She usually goes to bed or reads a book after a few minutes to kill time. After having children, my wife did everything to take care of them. Whether at home or having an affair, I always take it out on my wife, but she always cuts me some slack. Now I think: if it was another woman with a stronger personality, our marriage life might have ended long ago. The same is true in the eyes of colleagues. I have been in Haikou for five or six years, and I have been colleagues with Mr. Guan and Mr. Wang for many years. Due to lack of patience, they often quarrel with leading colleagues about trifles. After learning the rules of disciples and traditional culture, their ideas have changed. Everyone comes from all corners of the country and can work together in the same school. It should be the fate of a dry year and should be cherished. This study in Nanjing made me realize that I should be kind to my family and respect my wife and colleagues in my future family career and work. As a man, I should cultivate myself into a broad-minded person. As the saying goes, a general can ride a horse on his back and a prime minister can punt on his stomach.
As teachers, it is most important to learn from each other and set an example. In the future, I will pay more attention to the cultivation of children's moral character, give more care to those so-called underachievers, and let children get equal respect in personality. I dare not say how well I will do in the future, but I believe that traditional culture will change my life through acceptance.
The above is my simple experience of studying in Nanjing this time. Finally, to borrow a word from Professor Ren Deng, as the real feeling of this study, traditional culture can cure all social diseases, bring happiness to thousands of families, and benefit from real learning. Whoever learns benefits from early learning. As long as we study and practice traditional culture with sincerity and respect, the polluted humanity will be restored.