Behind every unqualified child, there is an unqualified parent. In fact, this sentence is not unreasonable. Education is that a tree shakes a tree and a cloud pushes another cloud. If you want your child to be a qualified and excellent child, you must first be an excellent parent, set an example in front of your child, set a good example for your child, pay attention to your own educational methods, and make your child more excellent. In life, most parents educate their children under the banner of educating their children, but in fact they do not adopt qualified educational methods. What kind of education methods do unqualified parents generally adopt to educate their children?

Restrict children's space Many parents have to control their children and limit their free space if they love them, so many parents will stifle their creativity and bold actions in the name of love. Usually, I wrap my child tightly in my arms, for fear that he will be injured, sick and in danger. In fact, this kind of education is not protecting children, but invisibly obliterating children's nature and freedom and becoming an obstacle to their growth.

Educate children blindly, but don't think for yourself. Many parents pin their hopes on their children and have high hopes for them. Usually pay special attention to educating children, hoping that they can listen to instructions and be good children from an early age. However, such parents often neglect their own education and fail to set an example for their children. As parents, what children are expected to do is just talk, not action. Such parents are actually not qualified parents. When parents educate their children, they actually need to receive education. Only excellent parents will educate their children in the best way to make great progress.

In the process of children's growth, it is easy to make mistakes by yelling instead of communication, which requires parents to guide their children patiently. However, when parents see their children make mistakes, they always feel that they hate iron and are easy to get angry. They vent their grumpy temper on their children, don't let them scold or even beat and scold, and don't give them the opportunity to resist or communicate, which will only alienate parents and children. Often in this growing environment, children will gradually form introverted and irritable personality characteristics, and children will only get worse and worse.

There are many ways to educate children. We should know how to choose the right education method for children in the process of their growth, which is the best education method for children. I hope every child can become a better person with the company and education of his parents.