Some experts say? Forget the baby, okay? Do the so-called experts necessarily know your children? What about the education of the so-called experts' own children? Do those so-called experts know that every child is an individual? Simply put, can experts be responsible for the future of other children?
A towering tree has a small branch. It is very easy for you to break it, but when it grows into a thick branch, it is very difficult to break it. By the same token, when children's minor problems first appear, they should be disciplined in time to prevent them before they happen. If you don't discipline and correct it, it will often be more difficult to correct it after forming a habit.
There are two kinds of children's mistakes, one is that they must be corrected and guided immediately; One can be properly ignored.
Must be corrected:
Fight with children
Grab toys for yourself when playing with children.
waste
Intentional destruction of other people's property
Bully the little ones.
If the above mistakes are left unchecked, it will be difficult in the future? Clean up? .
Allow appropriate neglect:
Parents can't criticize children when they do housework, break dishes or hit things their parents like.
Young children need adults to feed them. After reasoning with him or praising him, the child still needs to be fed. Then parents can let their children eat or not, and children will naturally find food when they are hungry.
It is normal for children to be properly emotional. Parents can ignore it according to the severity of the situation. As long as it is not excessive, satisfying children can also motivate children. But you always have to give in, and then it's hard to convince the children with words.
Therefore, we can't leave the children behind. The process of children making mistakes is the process of constantly correcting mistakes and gaining correct cognition. If you don't give your child a chance, but let it go or stop it with scolding, it will not only deprive your child of the fun of finding the right way, but also make him more unruly.