Parents give some advice to their puppy love son. The first suggestion is to understand that there is nothing wrong with falling in love, and students should not feel guilty about their natural feelings. Liking the opposite sex is as normal as a tree sprouting, growing branches, flowering and bearing fruit;
The second suggestion is not to express your feelings easily and casually. Cherish yourself and let your emotions win the beauty that truly belongs to it at the most appropriate time;
The third suggestion is not to do anything that violates the code of conduct of middle school students. If the flowers bloom too early, they will wither ahead of time and fail to bear full fruit.
How do parents solve the problem of puppy love? Parents should have a correct understanding of puppy love.
Parents don't all know how their children interact with the opposite sex at school. You can't think it's puppy love just because your child has been close to someone recently. Puppy love is not reading, doing homework and shopping with the opposite sex, but puppy love. Parents should have a clear concept of puppy love. Don't be counterproductive.
Instruct children to deal with emotional problems
When guiding children, don't be condescending and cocky, don't put yourself in the position of an educator, but as an elder who has experienced similar difficulties, help children get rid of their troubles. Only by being sincere can we really communicate with children, help them reposition themselves and cultivate their confidence in pursuing their ideals.
Treat boys and girls' puppy love differently.
Generally speaking, girls' psychology is more complex and sensitive, and they need careful guidance. Boys, on the other hand, need their parents to open their hearts like friends, treat each other sincerely and get along with each other attentively. There is no need to criticize puppy love too much, let alone look at it from another angle and isolate puppy love. They need more care and guidance. Encourage them to break up temporarily, block their feelings, get out of the "swamp" of puppy love, and make full use of their golden age of long talent, long knowledge, long body, full of energy and most thirst for knowledge.
The above is my advice to parents and their puppy love sons.