Relying on their own perseverance, children can overcome endless difficulties and climb the peak, which in turn will enhance their perseverance under tempering.
Many times, children will always encounter difficulties and obstacles from the body, mind or the outside world in their study and life. At this time, parents should not only be considerate, or do it for them, but also encourage their children not to be discouraged, not to give up, to persevere in the end, so that children can know how to persist in the face of difficulties and finally experience the joy brought by victory. So, what aspects can parents cultivate their children?
1. Assist and actively accompany and encourage children.
Children have a strong dependence on their parents, and their parents' companionship and encouragement can give them a sense of security. Positive comments from parents can also give children the courage and motivation to move on. Instead of holding infinite expectations for children, it is better to help them grow up, spend more time with them and spend more time encouraging them.
Let children experience difficulties
In the process of educating children, parents should make them suffer hardships, which can cultivate their perseverance. Therefore, when parents educate their children, they should let them persist in hardships. Only by persisting in difficulties will the child's perseverance be stronger.
We have seen some children grow up in the greenhouse, can't stand any difficulties, and quit when they encounter a little thing. The children here not only have a very poor frustration rate, but also choose to give up when they encounter some difficulties. Such a child will never succeed.
Therefore, in the process of educating children, parents should let their children stick to their own hardships and hardships, cultivate their perseverance and persistence, and let them know that all success is not so easy, and they must persist in order to succeed. Persistence requires perseverance.
3. Let children exercise independently
Creating an environment for independent activities for children as much as possible often requires them to overcome various difficulties in the process of activities, and their willpower will be enhanced while overcoming difficulties. Parents don't have to rush to help if their children are in trouble. They should wait for a while and let the children try to solve it themselves. When children overcome difficulties, they will feel satisfied for a while.
The scroll once said that persistence is success. As long as we dare to persist in anything and overcome difficulties, we will get closer and closer to our goal.