This child is obviously not the material for reading. I think he is still interested in cooking, so it is better to start training now. "

At night 10, the tree shouted, "I'm hungry, I want to eat chicken fillet." Dad Shu Shu said, "If you want to eat, fry it yourself." My mother said disapprovingly, "I went to bed so late. What do you want to eat chicken fillet for?" And the habit of eating midnight snack is also quite bad. "

Shu Shu's father casually said, "I stayed in my hometown for half a month, without watching TV, playing with my mobile phone or writing a word of homework." He is not the material for reading! "

Mom is depressed. The child is under 1 1 year old. How can a father see at a glance that a child is not suitable for school?

"But I still want to try and see if children can be a little interested in learning. After all, he is still so old. "

In today's world, people pay more and more attention to children's education. As a tree mother who raises sheep, she feels anxious and powerless about the present situation of her children. I really don't know what to do. It's no use beating and cursing. Children are like stones, invulnerable, neither soft nor hard.

Shu's mother is always worried "I don't know if he will blame his parents when he grows up, because you didn't care about me when you were a child!" "

Later, Mama Shu saw a book "The World is Our Classroom" recommended by a friend, in which the viewpoint of international education 2.0 parenting was refreshing.

In Ma Shu's view, this book completely subverts the mainstream parenting concept in contemporary society. Completely different from cramming education, which is popular in schools now, in this book, the author tells parents with real cases that children's grades are not the most important. What is important should be whether the child's knowledge is extensive, whether the ability to use his hands and brains is sufficient, and whether he has good qualities such as kindness and honesty.

The world is our classroom, written by Zhang Hua, a well-known financial media person and the father of three children. In order to give children a better education, he visited famous schools all over the world, observed their educational ideas, gathered the strength of many families and set up junior business schools. It took him ten years to witness the success of the educational concept of juvenile business school through the personal experience of 4 million+1 10 thousand users. So I wrote this book "The World is Our Classroom" to spread this international leading educational concept to the vast number of users.

This book can be said to subvert the old idea that reading changes fate and grades determine everything. It seems that the helpless aunt has a little direction of action. After reading this book, she silently wondered if she could influence children subtly from these aspects.

A video was posted on Tik Tok. In the video, the father said that his son was five years old. We have a plan for him. When he grows up, he will become a Chinese medicine practitioner. Now let him recite the secret of soup making. ...

Someone asked the child, do you like being a doctor? The child said that I like Chinese medicine. I want to be a great doctor when I grow up.

There is no doubt that the father in this video is a visionary. It has its own model, starting from the end, cultivating children's interest from an early age and setting lofty goals, directions and paths for children. It is conceivable that if you persist in this way according to his method, your child will have a bright future in the future.

Seeing this video, my uncle and mother reflect on themselves. Their children have been herding sheep since childhood and entertaining themselves. The two adults are busy with their own small businesses, never accompanying their children deliberately, and don't want to set lofty goals for their children from an early age.

Now that children are older, it's really hard to get rid of their bad habits. Children always listen in one ear and go out in the other, and don't care at all.

What should we do or, as the book says, accompany our children from three aspects: "reading widely, feeling beautiful and practicing more".

Zhang Hua mentioned such a word "general education" in his book. The book says, "General education is not a knowledge education, but an education that adheres to the tradition of freedom and humanity and shapes students into citizens who know themselves, understand the world, have a sense of responsibility and have a sound personality."

Author Zhang Hua visited many famous American universities such as Yale, Harvard and Fujimori, and found that the admission rules of these schools are similar: relatively excellent grades, more emphasis on students' excellent moral character, wide knowledge, strong thinking and practical ability, and they can actively cope with setbacks.

The world is our classroom tells a very surprising phenomenon. Sticking to reading books with children for 20 minutes every day will actually be better than doing homework for two hours. If you can add 100 words of writing practice every day, your child's growth will be unimaginable.

"Why not start with reading for 20 minutes every day and give it a try?" Mother Tree thought, "Maybe children will change by accompanying reading."

Excellent teachers more than 80 years ago understood that only those who take the initiative to learn will not feel that learning is a chore. On the other hand, how many children can feel the joy of learning in our campus, exam-oriented education, sea tactics and cramming parenting.

1937 to 1945 During World War II, there was a primary school in Japan called "Ba Xueyuan", which only existed for a short period of eight years. The school is very small, and dozens of children of different sizes go to school together. Principal Kobayashi attaches great importance to cultivating children's interest. Later, in this school, those who loved to do experiments since childhood became physicists, those who loved flowers became plant experts, and Xiao Doudou, who was dropped out of other primary schools, became well-known writers and messengers of peace. I have never grown up with high self-confidence and engaged in mediation.

It is precisely because they have discovered their own interests and enjoyed the happiness of learning since childhood that excellent educational ideas have been guiding them forward like a beam of light, forming an increasingly powerful positive cycle: learning for interest, being happy because of learning, and increasing interest from happiness.

As parents, should we put our children's interests before their grades and often say to them, "OK, give it a try!" "

Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator, saw a boy beating his classmates with mud at school and asked him to go to the principal's office after school. When he returned to the principal's office, the boy had arrived early. Mr. Tao Xingzhi took out three pieces of candy for the boys. And tell me why.

Because boys are punctual, a candy has a credit reward;

Because the boy didn't continue to smash his classmates after being persuaded to quit, he respected the teacher and rewarded a candy;

Because boys are keen on bullying girls, honest, kind and brave, they are rewarded with a candy. ...

The boy cried and admitted that he was also wrong and shouldn't fight with his classmates.

Mr. Tao Xingzhi smiled with satisfaction and said, "If you can correctly understand the mistake, I will give you another piece of candy."

Look, it's just an ordinary little thing on campus, but it makes people appreciate the strong personality charm of excellent educators who teach students in accordance with their aptitude and moisten things quietly. As a child in the incident, he understood the boundaries of action-what can and can't be done. Because of the rewards of these sweets, I will stick to those outstanding people who can use them for a lifetime.

Coincidentally, during the 20021"Two Sessions", Tang, president of Xishan Senior Middle School in Jiangsu Province, also mentioned the importance of excellent character: "Excellent education should cultivate lifelong athletes, responsible persons, problem solvers and elegant lives. Give children a sound and excellent personality, win future happiness, and benefit the country and society. "

As parents, you can't put the cart before the horse. In pursuit of high marks, you neglect the moral cultivation of children.

Teacher Zhang Hua also pointed out for us in The World Is Our Classroom: "Holistic education is the best key to open the crux of parents' anxiety in China today, and it is also the anchor to cultivate children's future-oriented core competitiveness. "As parents, accompany children to read extensively, cultivate children's interest in learning, and care for their excellent character. If you do these three things, your child will have won the finish line.