Parents are more concerned about their children's education, but at the same time they should pay attention to time and methods. If we don't consider the time and method, a lot of efforts will be in vain. For example, in the initial education, I saw too many parents giving their children political lessons, hoping that their children would study hard and win glory for their families. Children are underdeveloped in preschool, so it is difficult to accept the remark.
For example, if you want your child to learn English, what are the benefits of learning English with your child? If it can reach a level, what benefits will it have? This kind of education is effective for mature children, but basically ineffective for preschool children. Because he can't understand his parents at all. So many of these sermons can't achieve remarkable results. However, if you induce your child to feel the joy of learning, he will become interested in English. For example, at the beginning of learning, teach children English vocabulary and review it frequently. When a child can firmly grasp hundreds or even thousands of words, he has the right to speak in class. Whenever he answers the teacher's questions and is praised, he will gain a sense of honor. In order to maintain this sense of honor, he developed a strong interest in English, which benefited many times more than the results brought by preaching.
Parents can realize that young children can easily understand that great truth. Or is it easier for children to study hard to maintain their sense of honor after they have a sense of honor? No matter what method is used, it is always necessary to combine the age characteristics of the child. When considering the time of education, we should also consider methods that are suitable for children's age characteristics. When children show rebellious behavior, most parents will rudely stop it, don't touch it casually, don't interrupt it, don't shout loudly, but it has little effect. In fact, it is really useful to make children suffer properly and make them feel bored. Parents should not quarrel in front of their children. If parents don't agree, quarreling is inevitable. Sometimes I can't help but have a big fight in front of the children. When children are world outlook, outlook on life and values, setting a bad image example in front of children is not conducive to children's growth. He may think that quarreling is inevitable, but it will lead to family disharmony.
Children's rebellious period is generally learning, living, being bullied by classmates, etc. If they can't do whatever they want, or if their parents don't use mobile phones and feel indifferent and confused, their hearts will become anxious and more and more rebellious. Because this is the performance of adolescence, only by setting an example for children and building confidence can they grow up healthily. Many parents are dissatisfied with not listening to their children and having no patience. Rudely using strong language to command children to speak, or intervening too much, will easily make children's anti-control psychology stronger. I am eager to meet my parents face to face. Parents taught us to let go of anger and anger, and to remain calm and patient. When the child resists, don't listen to the tone of the command, wait for the child to calm down, the two sides communicate peacefully and understand the child's thoughts.