Teacher Jin recommended two books worth reading. I saw the most beautiful education first = the simplest. After reading it, I was deeply touched.

I blamed myself and found myself in the book. "Many parents' wishes and efforts have not been transformed into productivity, but have become destructive." The more requirements, regulations and constraints are imposed on children, and the more education is restricted, the more problems there will be. Suppress the child's positive passion, stimulate the child's negative emotions, and make him rebellious and self-enclosed. In this way, children will think about how to get rid of this bondage all day, and will not have in-depth conversations with their parents, resulting in many contradictions and education. This is the deep reason why strict parents often fail to educate their children.

Yes, only free people are conscious people. I found my education a failure. I'm too wordy with my children and take care of everything. I'm afraid he won't do anything well, do too much for me and lack interaction and communication with them, so my children don't want to communicate with me and want to escape from my sight. The child is actually an excellent and intelligent child. It is my' education' and my concern for him that have caused today's ending.

Speaking of this, I think it may be that I paid too little attention and patience to my child when he was young (because my father has been working in other places for a long time, I have to go to work, take care of the children and do housework, so I really don't have much time to talk to my child), only paying attention to his food, clothing, housing and transportation, and not really paying attention to his inner world. Looking back now, I really owe a lot to my children.

Once my child told me more than once that when he was in primary school, he was sad for one night because of my words, and even hurt himself. Writing here, my tears moistened my eyes. Yes, I owe my child inner communication and his inner real needs and understanding. I neglected too many details and hurt the child's young mind.

Sometimes I am a careful mother, and sometimes I am a very careless mother. It's no use saying anything now. Thank you very much, Mr. Jin, for introducing this book. I deeply feel that there are too many failures and omissions in children's education, which affect their character and behavior. My heart was deeply hurt. Is there anything I can do now to make it up to you? I think we can only change ourselves little by little now, let the children accept me little by little, and let me walk into the children's hearts step by step, just as the author in the book said, "In a relaxed environment, children have time and space to face themselves, and have the opportunity to learn to adapt and adjust and gather the power of self-growth."

My child, there is something wrong with my mother's education I sincerely apologize to you here: I'm sorry, I hope you can forgive my mother! At the same time, I hope you can get rid of those bad behavior habits and put your wisdom into practice. For your bright future, son, let's work together!

Teacher Jin, thank you very much for recommending these two books to me. I just finished watching The Most Beautiful Education = The Simplest, and I will go back and watch it again when I have time. The first time I saw it, it wasn't very in-depth. After reading it, I felt deeply and reflected on myself. There are really big problems in our education. Now I can only change myself slowly. It's not easy to change my children at once. I can only start with myself first. Teacher Jin, thank you for the good book you recommended. Really benefited a lot.