Previously, educators and parents have always had differences on the development and methods of adolescent sex education.
Some people think that China has a tradition of thousands of years, and there are few precedents for open sex education in schools or families, and the fertility has not weakened. Therefore, sex is something that you will teach yourself at a certain age. Even without sex education, it is difficult to make it clear.
This view has gradually declined in recent years. On the contrary, it emphasizes the importance of adolescent sex education for growth. Quite a few parents and educators have established an idea. As a mother in Beijing said, if a child is not consciously educated, he may learn only sexual instinct in his future life, rather than healthy sexual physiological knowledge and concepts.
At present, the content of sex education is mainly about sexual physiology. Zhang Meimei appealed not to neglect sex education. Children should be taught how to respect and care about the opposite sex, how to treat sexual activities correctly and how to maintain sexual mental health.
Zhang Meimei put forward the education of sexual beauty. For example, in order to attract the attention of others, especially the opposite sex, some teenagers now dye their hair red, yellow, colorful or have strange hairstyles. Others wear beggars' clothes today and show their navel and back tomorrow. This is the normal psychology of attracting the opposite sex in adolescence. We should carry out aesthetic education for teenagers as soon as possible, and incorporate the beauty of clothes, human body and the beauty of the opposite sex into adolescent sex education.
The understanding that "sex education should start from children's adolescence" should also be corrected. Zhang Meimei believes that "sex education for children should start from being parents". Gender education is very important. If parents can't give their children correct information in infancy, so that boys have masculine temperament and character, and girls have feminine conduct and behavior, children will have the problem of gender dislocation. According to an incomplete survey, as many as 200,000 people in China have requested sex-change surgery.
A complete sex education must also include sex moral education. In the growth process of teenagers, gradually telling them the meaning of sexual morality, respecting mothers and women, cherishing friendship, the difference between friendship and love, the responsibility of love and family, and people's different interests in the opposite sex at different ages will help them avoid making mistakes that affect their lives in ignorance.
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