Precocious people usually have these performances: smart and sensible, considerate of their parents, will suppress their own needs and ideas, and do things that meet adult standards or social rules. Therefore, they are usually sensitive, polite, intelligent and obedient.
However, because they forced themselves into pseudo-maturity at the age when they shouldn't understand social rules, they assumed the responsibility of adults prematurely. So, when they grow up, they may be emotionally late.
For example, he didn't begin to understand or began to understand late, because he concluded from past experiences that there were uncomfortable factors in the relationship, so he instinctively escaped.
0 1
Yang Guo, the protagonist of Jin Yong's novel The Condor Heroes, is a precocious and late-maturing person.
His precocity stems from the misfortune of coming from a family.
His father Yang Kang died before he was born, and his mother Mu Nianci was an orphan. After being adopted by Yang Tiexin, the father and daughter traveled across the state to perform artists, but her family background was not satisfactory. She is loveless, too, so she plunged into it when she met Yang Kang.
Yang Guo, a posthumous child, lived with his mother. Every time he asked about his father, Mu Nianci didn't say a word, just silently shed tears. She couldn't say a good word about Yang Kang, and she couldn't bear to speak ill of him. Therefore, the role of father was not only absent from Yang Guo's life, but also left no trace in his spiritual world.
His mother who lived alone died when he was 1 1. From then on, he lived alone, stealing chickens and touching dogs.
After I met Mr. and Mrs. Guo Jing, I lived in Peach Blossom Island for a period of time, which was considered as a patron. Only Guo Jing, Huang Rong and Ke Zhene are really kind to him. Because of Yang Kang, they are naturally biased against Yang Guo.
Yang Guo's precocity is forced by his family background and experience. If he wants to survive, he must act like an adult and obey social rules. No one supports him. Everything depends on yourself.
He is precocious in life, but emotionally, he began to understand very late.
Lu Wushuang, Cheng Ying, Gong Sunlue and Guo Xiang, the girls who used to live with Yang Guo day and night, were either never married or died because of him, so that's why I fell in love with Yang Guo at first sight and missed it for life.
But Yang Guo is not as kind as Duan. He didn't tease them. He really began to understand late. Even his true love, Little Dragon Girl, at first he only thought of her as "aunt". So the little dragon girl took a bite of blood and the two separated.
The two met again at the hero's meeting, and Yang Guo made it clear that he wanted to marry the little dragon girl. But a very important factor in their relationship is the obstruction of the outside world-the relationship between teachers and students is not good. This external pressure, on the contrary, inspired Yang Guo's rebellion.
But I'm not sure how much he liked her at that time. Is there more love between men and women than gratitude? If at this time, the two of them return to the ancient tomb to live in seclusion together, will their feelings be complete?
After they were poisoned and Yang Guo broke his arm, they really fell in love. So 16 years, Yang Guo has been waiting for the little dragon girl. After 16, Yang Guo will jump out of the valley of despair.
It is this persistence that makes Mr. Jin Yong give them a complete one.