First of all, parents should correct their thinking and truly realize the harm of higher education. The child is only in grade one. Don't compare your child with other children, and don't care too much about your grades. At present, the state prohibits the publication of students' achievements in compulsory education. This shows that the state should make parents understand that a child cannot be judged by his achievements. Primary school grades do not determine anything, nor do they determine what children should do at which stage. Don't pull out the seedlings and encourage them, killing the child's nature and aura. National policies have to be tested by many experts and professors and have certain scientific basis and truth, so our parents' educational ideas should also keep pace with the times. Parents should change their ideas, control their emotions and tolerate and accept their children. Some parents always sit by and check when their children are doing their homework.

Sometimes I feel that my child is too slow to do homework, and then I blame my child for not doing the wrong questions seriously. In this way, parents will become very anxious. Liu Xinyue, a mental health consultant for teenagers in Hebei, said: "Primary school is the best time to adapt. At this time, what parents should do is to cultivate their children's habit of autonomous learning, rather than "excessive companionship". Parents accompany their children to do their homework, which is a kind of "excessive companionship". Too much company will not only seriously affect parents' emotions, but also hinder children's ability to solve problems independently, which is not conducive to children's growth. Emotions are contagious. Parents' emotions can easily affect children's emotions. Parents are emotional and used to criticism and accusation, which will make their children timid and at a loss.

I dare not ask, say or dawdle if I have any questions about my study. Only when parents change their mentality and learn to control their emotions will they give their children a free and relaxed learning environment; Only when parents try their best to tolerate and accept their children's shortcomings and let them grow up slowly according to their own laws can children learn to be independent and have more stamina in learning. Parents should actively guide their children to develop good reading and thinking habits. The knowledge in books can be learned after school, but before school age, that is, before the age of six, children must form good habits. Good study habits will have a multiplier effect on children's learning. The most important thing for preschool children is to form the habit of reading and thinking.

For example, before the age of 3, you can show your children picture books and tell stories every night; After the age of 3, children may learn to read by themselves, encourage them to ask questions and guide them to solve problems by themselves. Children's early reading and thinking habits will show advantages in primary school, junior high school and high school, and play an important role in the senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination, so that children can benefit for life. In short, early education varies from person to person. If children feel the joy of learning, form good habits, gain self-confidence and sense of accomplishment, and take the initiative to learn, it will do no harm to children. On the contrary, if parents force their children to educate in advance in order to keep up with others, or expect Jackie Chan to accompany their children to study too much every day, making them anxious and letting their families fly around, it will only make their children's grades decline more and more after the second grade.