Text | Lucky pregnant girl (senior maternal and child care practitioner, original is not easy, please don't copy)

On the internet, I often see domestic parents complaining that their children are naughty and difficult to teach. Being a teacher is also very troublesome. Disobedient children will even be beaten regardless when they are extremely angry.

I believe many people were smoked by feather dusters, belts and hangers when they were young.

Nowadays, with the change of ideas, the situation of parents' corporal punishment of children will be reduced, and teachers will not beat students as hard as before because of the influence of public opinion.

Some students, I don't know where they heard the idea, actually think that foreign children are free and want to learn, forget it, it is still illegal for teachers to beat children.

However, with the development of the Internet and the rapid flow of information, many people also realize that some facts may be completely contrary to their imagination.

Because of the special situation in the past year, children in many countries and regions began to take online classes at home, and a news in Singapore some time ago attracted the attention of netizens.

Unexpectedly, on the first day of their online class, their parents took away the rattan they used to beat their children. Some parents buy three or four at a time, fearing that the rattan will break when hitting the baby, or the rattan will be secretly thrown away.

Some parents in China just know that corporal punishment of children is actually legal in Singapore, and some businesses have also made rattan: it won't hurt children, but it is enough to shock them.

In addition to Singapore, it is also legal to spank children in South Korea. There is a saying that boys spank and girls spank their calves.

Although threatening naughty children with rattan can play a deterrent role, proper corporal punishment can promote some children to learn.

However, it is a bit excessive for parents to say that they are dissatisfied with their children and want to hit them.

Beating children is for education, but if parents beat children under these circumstances, it will do great harm to children.

Vent one's emotions

When some parents are in a bad mood, no matter what their children have done wrong, whether they are aware of their mistakes or not, they will beat their children regardless.

This practice will only make children feel wronged.

Moreover, when parents simply educate their children and vent their emotions, the expressions on their faces are quite different: the former is serious and hates iron to produce; The latter just looks ferocious and scary.

Such ferocious expressions and practices will affect the parent-child relationship and cause children's fear of their parents.

I feel ashamed because I can't compete with children in words.

Sometimes children don't think there is anything wrong with their own practices and will argue with their parents, but some parents will use sticks to make their children compromise when they find that they can't compete with their children in theory and insist that they are right.

In this case, beating a child can easily make the child unconvinced or even rebellious.

Out of control after being drunk.

Some parents beat their children when they are under the control of alcohol. This simple abuse will only hurt the child's body and mind.

Stop at the right time

If children realize their mistakes or hate their parents, parents need to stop. Playing again at this time may become abuse or cause them to resist.

Pay attention to the way of hitting children.

Try to hit the child in an ordinary way, such as slapping the palm, buttocks and legs with a ruler. Pulling the child's hair, kicking with the upper foot and slapping the face will seriously hurt the child's self-esteem.

And when hitting the baby, it is best to have only yourself and the child present. If there are outsiders, it will also lead to their inferiority.

Don't beat children often.

The educational method of beating children will only be used when it is absolutely necessary. If you use it too many times, you will become numb. Therefore, it is very important to prepare some educational methods.

Today's topic: Do you agree to hit children?