Learn to press the pause button, don't play hardball, take a step back, and the child's stubbornness will not be so strong. You can play some music, say some interesting things, or have outdoor activities with your children, and then talk frankly with them after they calm down.
2. Guide children to think in many ways.
Stubborn children are single-minded, persistent and stubborn, but they don't look back until they reach the south wall. Therefore, parents should let their children learn more hobbies, such as vocal music, painting, dancing and other talents to improve their artistic accomplishment. Because learning this knowledge can improve children's divergent thinking, it is not a situation to look at the problem, but to look at the problem from multiple angles. In this way, children's thinking can be opened, their thinking can be expanded, and their personality will remain positive.
3. Respect children's opinions. For a stubborn child, you must look at the problem from his standpoint.
No matter what you do, respect the children's opinions as much as possible and don't interfere too much. Sometimes you know that you may not be able to do it well, but you should also understand the child's heart and let him feel it. In addition, when he can't do well, his parents will give him a correct demonstration. Never deny or suppress children at this time, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
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The reason why children are stubborn.
First, it is because parents spoil their children too much. Children can control everything at home. If they don't listen to him once, he will lose his temper as a means of threatening adults.
Second, parents' unprincipled accommodation. Some parents are flustered when they see their children lose their temper, and they are at a loss. They will agree to all unreasonable demands of their children. In the long run, children will naturally come to the conclusion that everything can be solved as long as they are angry.
Third, some parents fail to make promises to their children, or delay for too long, thus making their children angry and issuing various forms of confrontational behavior.