Mothers often prefer to spoil their children, easily spoil their children's various problems and develop bad personalities. Fathers tend to love their children strictly and moderately, and actively stop and guide them when they make mistakes. Only by coordinating the relationship between parents can children grow up effectively.
If the father acts as a shopkeeper in the process of the child's growth and turns a deaf ear to the child's education, the child will do whatever he does, which will seriously affect the child's physical and mental health development. The child can't feel the existence of his father's love, because his father simply ignores him and lets him develop completely. At this time, the father seems to have disappeared, and he has lost this love for his children.
If the mother indulges the child more because of the lack of father's love, and hopes that the child can get meticulous care, then the child is more likely to fall into a state of arrogance and extravagance. Even if there is no money at home, he may become a dude. The child embarked on this road, because of his mother's connivance and his father's laissez-faire, he will go further and further on this road and eventually fall into a deep pit.
Many families have this problem. The important reason is not that the father doesn't want to take care of it, but that the father likes to be busy with his own career and often ignores the care for the family and the care for the children. As a result, when a child grows up, he is like a child without a father. No matter in daily life or at the parent-teacher meeting, he can't see his father. These factors will have an indelible impact on the child's heart, thus distorting his character and making him more extreme. Finally, he may blame his father for not raising him.