1, shaping intelligence: intelligence develops fastest at the age of 0-6, and 50% intelligence is formed before the age of 4. Intelligence is not the number of brain cells, but the number of connections between brain cells. To some extent, the stimulation is more, and the brain neurons are thicker. Intelligence develops in a certain way.
2. Emotional cultivation: the left brain is developed: the logical thinking is strong, and the right brain is developed: the creative thinking is strong, and the imagination is cultivated. A complete emotional cultivation will have a complete personality performance: at this time, don't restrain the child too much, play with him and let him win (every win will increase his confidence). Cultivate his warmth.
3. Character building: establish concepts, distinguish right from wrong (never start work after 6 years old), put education in stories, and be less reasonable. There is a saying: if you are used to being responsive, you will be arrogant and rude; If you are used to not asking for anything in return, you will feel inferior and negative. Children's self-confidence and self-esteem are the most important. Parents should pay attention to this.
(2) 6- 12 years old, love equals a coach.
Children have a second world: school! Entering the group society, he felt the power of the group, and praise or criticism played a role in suggesting education. Words and actions convey the message of love: love is the greatest motivation. If he can feel the sunshine and rain of love, the sapling will thrive. Therefore, the power of the coach's positive suggestion is very important: how do you evaluate the child and what the child will become; So what kind of person do you want your child to be and how do you evaluate your child? Always convey positive thoughts, positive language and positive energy.
1, self-confidence: you must follow your child's interests, not to make him famous and get married. We should educate with the thumb, not the index finger. 65438+20000 must be completed before the age of 02. Praise must be timely, and face-to-face criticism must be relaxed and serious. Sandwich education can be quoted here: disadvantages lie in advantages, and criticism lies in hope (affirmation-but-belief). What's the matter? What's the matter? Get rid of your mistake once and you will get better and better.
2, habit formation: pay attention to details, everything has to go through their own efforts, be honest with themselves.
3. Reward and punishment: Pay attention to his preferences and give him a reward when it is time, so that he will be moved by affirmation. Don't reprimand in public, protect his self-esteem. Even if your child does something wrong and makes you angry, you should separate things from love. If you make a mistake, you must criticize and punish, but punishment is not to vent your dissatisfaction, but to educate and care. Every kind of education is related to love.
4, responsibility cultivation: independence or dependence is cultivated, do your own thing, do it seriously, and do it thoroughly. Parents do it instead of him, but they can't replace it for a lifetime; Teach him to do it, and he can benefit for life.
5. Play and study: Interest is the best teacher. If you have fun, you can study hard.
(3) 12- 18 years old, love equals respect.
He walks on a self-centered road: I have grown up and demand equality. Talk to children like friends.