Adolescent Psychological Counseling for Girls For senior two girls, children's education needs to start from an early age, and children's psychology is often our biggest problem. Adolescent children's emotional cognition is still in its infancy. Let's share the adolescent psychological counseling for senior two girls.

Psychological counseling for adolescent girls 1 Senior two girls learn to listen to their children's hearts.

Listening is the most effective way to communicate. When a child encounters a problem or makes a mistake, don't rush to blame and criticize, but listen carefully to the child's voice first, understand the cause of the matter, and find a solution with the child.

In the process of listening, don't interrupt the children's speech and encourage them to show their feelings.

Help them and publicize their achievements.

This requires parents to go deep into their children's inner world and join their children's creative plans and actions. Learning from children, we have to be children's "peers" in order to make a difference.

Make friends with children.

Children have a holiday, have more spare time and are full of energy, which is a good opportunity to communicate with children. Parents should "play" with their children more, thus "entertaining".

Find time to walk into the humanistic world with your children, visit bookstores, museums, art exhibitions with your children ... or watch movies with your children and go to the playground to relax. Organize a short family trip, parents choose 1-2 destination, and let children choose where to go.

Assign tasks to children and try to let them do raiders. Children can use travel books or search for must-see attractions on the Internet. It is much easier to communicate with parents by making children feel that they are adults.

Psychological counseling for adolescent girls: 2 1, praise and encouragement method.

Everyone yearns for the certainty of others. Parents should use praise, encouragement, affirmation and appreciation to teach their children, learn to appreciate their children and learn to look at them from another angle; Of course, when praising children, we should be timely, moderate, sincere, not exaggerated or excessive. Otherwise, it will go the other way.

2. Enrich students' spare time.

Teachers can enrich students' after-school life by developing their specialties and hobbies, so as to divert students' attention and let them use their energy in other aspects. For example, take part in sports, badminton, shuttlecock, basketball, skipping rope and so on. Join various interest groups, choirs, dance teams, art groups, etc. And chat and play with same-sex friends as much as possible.

3. Environmental edification method

Man is the product of the environment. Both the humanistic environment and the natural environment of the family have an impact on children. In dealing with interpersonal relationships, parents should show ideological qualities and personality charm such as kindness, generosity, justice, progress, civilization, generosity and hard work, and form an excellent family atmosphere.

How to educate and guide adolescent girls?

1. Adolescence is a period of resistance. You should control your emotions reasonably and don't lose your temper with your children. No scolding, no beating.

2. Adolescence is a period of sexual impulse. Take the initiative to learn some knowledge about sex and correctly understand and face up to this problem.

Then to guide the psychological problems of adolescent children.

3. Adolescence is an important period of development, and all kinds of physiology and psychology are changing. Pay attention to your health, take a bath frequently and change clothes frequently to prevent the growth of bacteria. Take more exercise. Tell children how to spend adolescence better.

Psychological counseling for adolescent girls; 3. Correct treatment of adolescent girls' puppy love.

1. The first thing parents should do is to give their children 1 an effective and objective evaluation of "the feelings of adolescence".

Educating children that everything is normal proves that they have entered the stage of youth development with emotional desire for children. And pay attention to children's personality characteristics and emotions in life, and don't ridicule and laugh at children.

2. Help children recognize the "feelings of adolescence".

Parents should educate their children that perfect love is not only a simple same-sex repulsion, but also contains lofty character and rich spiritual essence. If your child already has feelings, parents should help the child analyze these feelings. If children are attracted by each other's strengths and advantages, they should turn this happy feeling and admiration and appreciation for each other into motivation to improve themselves diligently; If children are attracted by each other's appearance or family background, parents should educate their children. Such feelings are superficial, chemicals and external ones are only superficial, and the nobleness and richness of the essential spirit is the most critical.

Parents should chat with their children more here and pay attention to the concept trends of adolescent girls.

You can even assign some parent-child interactions, such as watching a movie together, singing karaoke with children, going to a concert tour and holding sports competitions together. There is no need to deliberately "criticize" children, just like chatting with friends in the basin, educating children to express their thoughts. Parents don't have to deliberately stop talking about "adolescent feelings" in front of their children. I think that the more parents are open to the outside world, the more sincerely they talk to their children about "the feelings of adolescence", and the more children can get rid of the novelty of "love".

4. Educate children to get along with different friends of the opposite sex.

Parents should never blame their children for calling, sending messages and playing with friends and classmates of the opposite sex. I remembered a sentence I read on Sina Weibo a few days ago, which said that our parents in China put pressure on their children to get along with friends of the opposite sex during their adolescence. After their children graduated, they hoped to find 1 suitable lovers at all levels to marry. This is really very different. When your children can't learn to interact with friends of the opposite sex well in adolescence, it will often do great harm to their future interpersonal communication, love and friendship consciousness. Therefore, parents must not forbid their children to get along with friends of the opposite sex, but should encourage them to establish friendship with friends and classmates of the opposite sex.

Parents should strengthen the sexual initiation education for their children.

If your child has a tendency to get along with his beloved friends of the opposite sex, parents should also talk to their children with relief about the matters that must be paid attention to in the whole process of getting along, educate their children to control their personal behavior and protect the emergence of sexual personal behavior. Parents don't have to feel ugly about such things with their children. Now the information content is so developed that there are many ways for children to get this information content. Children can't find it by themselves, compared with parents telling them about the gender knowledge of scientific research.

6. Parents should help their children shape a correct view of love.

Educating children is not asking for answers from beloved friends of the opposite sex, but caring more about each other and solving difficulties and incentives when they have to. If children only have unrequited love for each other, parents should educate their children that they really love each other. If the other person has no feelings for you, you should take that emotion to heart, be gentle and considerate. That can help children treat "feelings" correctly, and also help them establish a healthy view of marriage.