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How to educate children to fight?
1. Let the children handle it themselves.

Fighting is a conflict. Although it is more difficult to solve, children are likely to face more conflicts in society. Then, compared with this, fighting as a child is as insignificant as "playing house". Then, whether a child can bear and solve fierce conflicts perfectly depends on how he solved conflicts when he was a child and whether he has the ability to bear everything independently. Therefore, if a child fights with someone, he has to deal with it himself. Let him constantly explore ways to get along with others, and he will establish an appropriate interactive relationship with others as an adult.

2. ask the ins and outs of the matter.

When you hear a child fighting, you should first ask the child the reason for the fight, such as why did you fight and who started it? Never ask anything, give your child a fat beating, or scold each other right away. You know, sometimes children fight out of "justice."

Moreover, according to psychologists' research, teaching after a fight will make children more impressed. Therefore, reasonable teaching will make children alert and learn the truth of being a man. Therefore, smart parents must not miss the best opportunity for education because of impatience.

3. Cultivate good habits and character.

Fighting seems trivial, but it affects the growth of children's character. So parents should grasp the "degree" in guidance. It can be said that we neither want our children to be "wolves" nor have the heart to be "sheep". Then, in daily life, we should pay attention to the cultivation of children's consciousness, let children develop good habits and personalities, let children master the correct outlook on life and values, and let children learn the correct way to solve things.