This combination is much stronger than the stick education under high pressure, and it is really difficult for parents to agree with the mixed doubles. It is true that Chua Meier's education is the victory of "Tiger Mother" education. However, playfulness is a child's nature. When a child makes a naughty mistake, the combination of sticks will undoubtedly kill the child's nature. At this time, "positive education" should stand up and play an active role. Children with mild warnings lose interest in toys after a period of time, while children with severe warnings show strong interest in toys and can't put it down. Strict behavior gives children external reasons and strengthens their bad behavior.
Results In another intelligence test eight months later, these children's test scores were significantly improved, and the teachers also gave these children a better character appraisal. This also shows that encouragement and praise are effective in educating children. Yan Yuan, an educator in Qing Dynasty, said: "It is better to win an award than to win an award." Therefore, in the process of educating children, we might as well talk more about encouraging children to be self-reliant, confident and confident. "You will be a great person", "Test scores are not the most important thing, what matters is whether you work hard" and "polite children should learn to be grateful and say thank you more" ... These words are the motivation for children to feel encouraged and support their progress. Children are easy to satisfy, because they are simple in mind, simple in feelings and simple in love for their parents. When children's psychological world is forming, they should be instilled with more positive energy instead of violence and pain.
Every family wants their children to succeed. Every child once had such a dream in his heart, but many times, because of the contradiction between children and parents, the bright future may be bleak. "Positive education" means asking parents to respect and affirm, to be firm and not arrogant. Encourage and praise, reason and listen, and guide children to grow up correctly. Parents should always remember that they are their children's role models, and their words and deeds are all imitated by children. Don't let their words and deeds be the reason for children to refute you.