Guoguo, a small class, became a late professional, especially after entering the winter, he was late almost every day. Only in Guo's eyes, the child is still young, and the small class in kindergarten is not very important, so she never takes the child's lateness to heart. Although the teacher has talked to Guoguo's mother several times, hoping that she can let the children get up early and try not to be late, the mother doesn't seem to take it to heart.

In fact, there are many parents like Guoguo's mother. In their view, small classes in kindergartens are for fun, and it doesn't matter whether you are late or not. Coupled with the cold winter, it is understandable that children don't want to get up in the morning. It is precisely because parents keep making excuses for their children that they eventually have more and more serious bed-rest psychology.

Parents should really pay attention to being late. Seemingly small behaviors have a profound impact on children. If you don't care about being late from an early age, it means that children don't care about time at all, and even the rules of kindergarten are never taken seriously. If parents don't pay attention to such behavior and don't persuade them, children are likely to be "abandoned".

1, no sense of time.

Perhaps there are not many things that children need to do in small kindergarten classes, so parents will think it doesn't matter if they are late. How can parents educate their children if they are always late after the middle and large classes, or after primary school?

What's important is that parents have always instilled in their children the concept of "it doesn't matter", which will easily make their children's cognition deviate, feel that time is not important at all, and slowly there will be no concept of time. Maybe you don't have a sense of urgency, or even procrastinate. You just do whatever you want.

2, not conducive to health

Kindergarten has a fixed schedule. Presumably, parents should know that their children's breakfast needs to be completed in kindergarten. If he is always late, the breakfast time will be more urgent, and even if the teacher leaves breakfast for the child, it will get cold. If breakfast is solved in this way for a long time, it will naturally bury hidden dangers for children's health.

3. Separation anxiety will be aggravated.

I don't want to get up because the children feel more comfortable at home and don't have too many constraints. Once this kind of psychology breeds, children will compare family life with kindergarten life and always feel more free at home. Slowly, he will have a rejection of going to kindergarten, which will be more serious and prone to separation anxiety.

4, can't develop good quality

To tell the truth, even adults, in the cold winter, will have the psychology of staying in bed, let alone children. It's just that parents make compromises again and again, making them feel that as long as they don't like something, they can give it up at will. After a long time, children may also develop the psychology of avoiding difficulties. How can we cultivate a firm character and quality?

Unexpectedly, this little detail of being late will make children pay such a heavy price. So parents should guide their children not to stay in bed and not to be late. If there is no concept of time since childhood, how can children finish their homework seriously in primary school?

1, early to bed and early to rise

The child doesn't want to get up, partly because of lack of sleep, which makes him form a good habit of going to bed early and getting up early. Try to go to bed as early as possible at night, so that children can have enough sleep time and get up smoothly in the morning. On the contrary, if the child goes to bed very late, then his sleep time will be obviously insufficient and he will naturally get up in the morning.

2. wake up the child early.

If you want your child to go out at 7: 30, you should wake him up at 7: 00 to give him some buffer time. Get dressed and take a shower, and the children will not be pressed for time and panic. Some parents hope that their children will wake up on the spot when they sleep for a while. Actually, this is not good. In case of emergency, being late becomes an inevitable phenomenon.

3. Don't make excuses for children.

Since he entered school, parents should constantly instill in him the idea of "going to school on time" and let children know that this is the responsibility of students. No matter whether children are coquetry or crying, or want to play tricks on parents, they should stick to their own principles and resolutely not compromise. Because of this kind of thing, as long as parents compromise, there will be countless late behaviors. Of course, parents should not make excuses for them. If they are late, they will have to bear the consequences themselves.

Being young is no excuse. Being late has nothing to do with age. Even children in small classes will have "full-time babies" who don't take time off and are not late for the whole semester. Therefore, children's lateness is related to their parents. Developing good living habits from an early age is a sign of being responsible for yourself. Educating children should start from the details. Once being late becomes a habit, children will have no sense of time.