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What should intergenerational education do?
How to better do intergenerational education? There is no doubt that children will grow up healthier and happier if they live with their parents. However, considering the current social situation in China, it is unrealistic for many people to let one parent take care of their children full-time. On the one hand, there are objective economic pressures; On the other hand, we will also consider the factors of our own career development. Therefore, grandparents have become the choice of many families to take care of their children. Many people think that the concept of old people taking care of children is out of date. Affect children's personality development; It is easy to spoil children too much; Ignore the needs of children's growth and form some bad living habits. , and even caused many family conflicts. Children's parents and elders generally have conflicts in educational concepts, and both sides should communicate, such as parents cultivating children's intellectual development and emotional intelligence development. Grandparents can guide children to respect the old and love the young, and be polite in life. Parents should also ask their elders for parenting experience, and elders should learn the knowledge of keeping pace with the times to help their children grow better. When elders treat their children, they must be clear about the difference between love and doting. In fact, parents are most afraid of their elders spoiling their children. Elders must know how to love their children correctly, encourage and support them more, don't do many things for them, and let them do it themselves. Young parents are often in a competitive environment, and the pressure of survival is relatively high. It's easy to bring the tension at work home, resulting in a less harmonious family atmosphere and bringing too much psychological pressure to the baby. However, grandparents have left the competitive social environment and their mentality is relatively peaceful. In addition, the elderly have childlike psychology, which makes them particularly fond of babies. They are more likely to integrate into the games of young babies and establish a relatively harmonious relationship with them, which provides them with a very relaxed and harmonious psychological foundation for implementing correct education.