When a nine-year-old child appears rebellious, parents can deal with it in the following ways: patiently persuade and educate.

Patience and guidance

Try not to reprimand and criticize too much, or force children to do something according to their parents' wishes. This will not only improve children's rebellious psychology, but may be counterproductive. We should try our best to be patient, help children clear their minds and release the pressure in their hearts through communication, listening, trust and tolerance, so as to solve problems well.

lead by example

Parents' behavior language will exert a subtle influence on their children. Therefore, parents should correctly guide their children to solve problems calmly, because they should avoid quarreling, losing their temper and making excessive behaviors in front of their children. Gradually establish a correct outlook on life and values and set an example for children.