Many fathers will take a very tough attitude when facing disobedient children. They think that as long as children are disobedient, they need to be disciplined. Some fathers, when faced with some differences in their children, will hit their children. They think that only by letting children eat such a meal will they have some understanding and let them know that they won't make such mistakes next time. However, it must be said that it is usually very normal for children to be disobedient. Because children also have their own independent thoughts, it doesn't mean that adults have to listen to everything they say, because it is also a sign of disrespect for them.

If a child listens to adults, then the child doesn't have many ideas, which is also very unfavorable to his development. If children don't obey, they have good reasons, then we must understand them. Because for every child, his life plan is different, so in the face of such a situation, he should have his own requirements and pursuits. We can't treat him with such a controlling attitude just because he is disobedient. If we often hit children, children often have rebellious psychology. Driven by this psychology, they are likely to do things that hurt themselves or others.

There is such a child punished by his father in his own home. He usually bullies other students at school. Let him have a very abnormal trend in his heart. He felt that he should let others suffer this kind of injury when he was beaten like this. So for such children, they are likely to have some changes in their hearts and put themselves in a very embarrassing situation. If some other aspects of the father can be changed by his beating, then this kind of discipline is not desirable for the father.

Because we all know that for such children, there are usually some problems in their hearts. They think there is nothing beautiful in this world. Some children have various psychological problems because their parents have too much control over them. More importantly, some parents often beat their children when they are in charge of their children, which will cause very abnormal changes in their hearts. So this is the case now. If parents educate their children, they must not beat them often, otherwise it will cause them lifelong psychological defects, which is also very incomprehensible and unacceptable. But as a child, because his father always beats him, it has caused a certain burden in his heart, and he will often hurt others to meet his inner needs, so this situation is very stopped and should be spurned.