1. edification plan-give children a good influence all their lives

Family is the first class for children, and the influence of family education is far-reaching and enormous. Therefore, if parents can cultivate their children's healthy hobbies and Zhi Tao children's interests and conduct in family life by telling stories, then they can make their children grow up healthily.

2. Tutoring plan-let children change from opposition to cooperation.

The success of Dayu's water control lies in "dredging" rather than "blocking", and parents can also get inspiration from it. Too much autocracy in education will only lead to children's rebellion and "against you", but if you adopt a wise and open guidance strategy, children will be willing to cooperate with you happily.

3. Respect children-help children overcome the quagmire of being tired of learning.

Conflicts and contradictions between parents and children are often due to parents' lack of respect for their children, which makes them feel afraid and dissatisfied and alienated from each other. Try to respect children, and you will become the most popular parent.

4. Have peer-to-peer communication with children.

The premise of good communication with children is equality, and they are his good friends. Only in this way will he be willing to tell you the truth and his parents can help them solve all kinds of problems in time. If you always put on airs and arbitrarily ask your children to obey themselves, the door for parents to communicate with their children will slowly close.

5. Attack and defense plan-give the child a "vaccination" first

The best defense is attack, and so is educating children. Instead of disciplining and getting angry after a child has a problem, it is better to lay a "vaccination" in advance to improve the child's "immunity" and let the child take fewer detours and make fewer mistakes.

6. frugal training-help children overcome arrogance.

Nowadays, children are all "little emperors" and "little princesses" at home. If they want to get wind and rain, they will form the habit of spending money lavishly and doing nothing. This habit is extremely detrimental to their healthy growth. Therefore, parents should confidently educate their children to be frugal and help them develop the habit of frugality. This is the true love for them.

7. Peer lesson plans-teaching children well through participation.

If parents can participate in their children's lives and spend more time with their children, they can not only enhance the parent-child relationship, but also inspire their children. At the same time, they can learn more about their children, which is very important for developing their potential and cultivating talents.

8. Prevent minor delays-don't let small problems become big problems.

In life, children sometimes have some minor problems, such as bullying, rudeness and laziness. We should pay attention to them at this time. Although the problem is small, it should be strictly controlled to prevent procrastination, otherwise the small problem will become a big problem. Don't tolerate children's small mistakes. Strict management is also a sign of love.

9. Persuade peace-let children and teachers tolerate each other.

There will also be some friction and misunderstanding between teachers and students. At this time, parents should play the role of "peacemakers" to help both sides eliminate contradictions and misunderstandings and understand and tolerate each other. Let the children still respect the teacher, and the teacher will continue to care for the children.

10. Make rules-let children learn self-control with reasonable rules.

Children's self-control ability is poor, and parents' preaching of "don't do this" and "don't do that" is easy to get bored. At this time, parents can establish a set of effective behavior rules for their children as the basis for their children to judge their own behavior, thus restraining their own behavior.

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In life, there are more and more children with psychological barriers. Child psychologists point out that excessive pressure is an important reason for children's psychological problems, so it is imperative to reduce the burden on children. In order to make children grow up healthily, parents should not put too much pressure on their children.

12. Incentive meter-motivating children to love learning

Teach children to find the right way. When persuasion and preaching are ineffective, parents may wish to try this incentive plan. Use the child's aggressive, rebellious and even jealous psychology to deliberately stimulate the child, so that the child will change from not loving learning to active learning.

13. acceptance-let children like and accept themselves.

If children can't fully understand themselves and see their strengths, there will be many problems. Such as inferiority complex, jealousy, etc. Therefore, parents should let their children see their own advantages, let them like themselves, and let them face life with confidence.

14. Use patience-gently correct children's "out of line" behavior.

Children often make some "outrageous" behaviors that parents can't tolerate, and "rushing" education will only make children go to extremes. Therefore, parents can only "be patient", suppress their anger, understand and tolerate their children more, and guide them on this basis, so as to lead their children to the right path.

15. Inspirational plan-cultivate children's bold exploration personality

In life, it is often those who dare to explore and be fearless that can achieve outstanding achievements and happiness. Therefore, for the sake of children's future, parents should not overprotect or overemphasize the cultivation of "obedient" children, but should give them more opportunities to exercise and encourage them to be brave children.

16. Touching children's hearts with true feelings

Educating children can't just preach, scold and persuade, sometimes they must be emotional, so as to disturb their minds and achieve the best effect of education. However, to influence children, we must be sincere, otherwise the effect will be greatly reduced.

17. Equality Plan-Cultivate children with an open mind

Only children are "little suns" and are used to being self-centered. But this personality is extremely unfavorable to interpersonal communication. Therefore, in life, parents should pay attention not to give their children special status, cultivate their spirit of sharing and cooperation, and gradually cultivate an open-minded child.

18. bitter grinding plan-cultivate children's will and perseverance

Children face a highly competitive society, and many children lack the courage to overcome difficulties because of their comfortable life. Therefore, smart parents should let their children go through some hardships and cultivate their indomitable will and perseverance, so as to win in the future competition.