1, communicate frankly, build trust with children, and the premise of making children honest is the trust between parents and children. We need to communicate honestly with our children. In order to let children know right from wrong, parents should clearly state their expectations of honesty: "I hope everyone in the family can be honest and upright." Let the children know that there is no need to lie because they are afraid that their parents will be angry. Even if he did something wrong, telling the truth is the most important thing. Parents should listen to their children's thoughts and talk to them about the consequences of lying, such as losing the trust of others and destroying interpersonal relationships, so that children can understand the importance of honesty.

2, rational treatment, the right medicine, parents find that the child is lying, don't rush to fight and scold, communicate with the child in a benign way, give him the right direction and tell him what to do. If children want to play, they lie and say they have no homework. Parents can say to their children, "I know you want to play." Is this good? Mom promised you to play after finishing your homework, and will give you time to play by yourself in the future; But you have to promise your mother that you can't lie to your mother any more. "

3. Kindly remind that parents should not be indifferent to lying to their children, but kindly remind their children. For example, if a child lies to cheat you to ask for pocket money, parents can say to their children, "Today you are taking your pocket money for next month, and I will deduct it directly from you next time." This kind of kind reminder can neither hurt the child's self-esteem nor remind the child. Is it wonderful?

4. Take the initiative to help. When parents find that their children do have difficulties in lying, they should not care too much about their children's lying, but should take the initiative to help them solve the problem. Otherwise, parents will keep blaming their children when they need help most. Won't it make them feel worse? Specific analysis of specific problems, taking the initiative to help children is also a way to get rid of children lying.