Many children educated by strict parents especially like to shirk their responsibilities, and children have no clear opinions, which proves that parents usually make more choices when there are favorable problems. When parents blindly deny their children's choices and interfere with others' ideas, children will gradually stop being very opinionated, or be afraid of being very opinionated. Because any choice will be resisted and denied by parents, in the long run, it will make her lose hope in herself and make him lack the ability to choose. Parents must take full responsibility for this. The objective fact that we usually treat children. Even if we think he chose something he shouldn't, we should support him. After all, in many choices in his life, no one can replace him.

Love to avoid responsibility is indeed related to parents' education on weekdays. It is possible that parents will do the same thing in their personal behavior and let their children follow suit. It may also be that parents are too strict at ordinary times and let their children find that they can't do anything well. After making a mistake, the first thing that comes to mind is to evade responsibility. In the final analysis, this person can't bear the bad influence of his responsibilities except evading responsibilities, because only by evading responsibilities can things become less and less complicated. Parents are role models for children's growth. If parents shirk their responsibilities in their children's daily lives, as children, of course, they will gradually like to shirk their responsibilities on many issues in their daily lives, because children's nature is to learn and imitate.

Therefore, as parents, what they can do is to be responsible and set an example if they want their children not to shirk their responsibilities. When a child encounters a problem, he doesn't admit that he is wrong, but puts the blame on others. Then the child will not realize his inaccuracy in this process, and then he will not be able to improve himself according to this inaccuracy. These inaccuracies will be maintained, never self-developed, and always live under their own problem concepts. Then it is likely to become more paranoid, self-centered, ignoring the personal feelings of others, and ultimately unable to develop and improve themselves.