First of all, Japanese parents attach great importance to cultivating children's independent ability when educating their children. When children are young, Japanese mothers let them do their own things. But in China, many parents will do everything for their children and don't want them to suffer. When children were two or three years old, Japanese parents began to let their children cross the road and tidy their own rooms. When children reach a certain age, they basically don't have to worry about their parents. Therefore, Japan's awareness of cultivating children's independent ability is still quite strong.
Secondly, Japanese parents attach great importance to the cultivation of children's etiquette. As we all know, Japanese families pay great attention to etiquette. In public places, you rarely see a loud bear Haizi. When eating at a table, Japanese parents will also ask their children to respect their elders and let them eat first. And parents still give their children face in front of everyone.
If children make mistakes in public, parents will not severely reprimand them. Because they think that if they don't give their children face in public, it is a problem of losing their dignity. The purpose of the film "Children" is to make children realize their mistakes, regardless of the location. So even if the child makes a mistake, parents will take the child home and teach him a lesson. When dealing with children's mistakes, parents will also respect their children and understand the reasons with them. Then according to the principle, to educate children. In fact, as children get older, they will realize their mistakes. In educating children, we can't put beating and cursing first. Let children truly realize their mistakes, which should be the purpose of education, and prevent children from making the same mistakes in their later lives.