How to make children grow up healthily
1. Setting an example is more important than strict teaching.
A child's psychological endurance to a family atmosphere is manifested in his adaptation and acceptance of the image of family members (mainly parents), and the role played by parents in family life directly affects the child's mental health.
Therefore, parents should always be aware that a pair of innocent eyes are watching them and set an example everywhere in life and work. When children are asked to do something, they should do it first, demonstrate more and preach less.
2. Have a democratic behavior.
As parents, we should respect children's independent personality and be democratic and amiable, which will have a very beneficial and far-reaching impact on children's healthy physical and mental growth. In family life, parents regard their children as elders, teachers and friends, and should not bring "social roles" into their homes.
We should learn to understand and respect children, and only from the perspective of children can we discover their inner world. Never follow parents' own subjective wishes and encourage them to do whatever they want. When there are contradictions and differences in the family, don't be impatient and rude, treat each other as coldly as possible, and simplify complex problems.
3. Harmonious family atmosphere
Mutual respect, understanding, trust and concern among family members are the basic conditions for managing families and educating children. The key to family harmony is both husband and wife, so it is necessary for responsible parents to seriously study the special art and domestic science of being a spouse for the happiness of their families and the success of their children.
4. Optimistic spirit and noble aesthetic taste.
Parents' optimistic, calm and happy emotions can have great attraction to children. Parents should consciously restrain troubles, sadness and melancholy from all sides, control their bad personality, and let their children feel the warmth and charm of the family with an optimistic spirit. In addition, the material environment and psychological atmosphere in the family should also fully consider the influence of their education.
At present, some parents attach great importance to family furnishings, clothing, eating, drinking and entertainment, but are indifferent to their children's intellectual input, study and rest, and physical and mental health. This is absolutely unacceptable, and no parent should underestimate this "subtle" power.