1, treat children as friends. In the process of communicating with children at ordinary times, don't talk to him in the tone of command, treat him as a friend, stand in his position and viewpoint, communicate with him in his favorite language, and talk with him in simple language during the chat. He likes listening. If children obey because of orders and coercion, they will resent it. Usually by telling stories and playing games, they will establish the correct so-called truth because of his playing.

2, children's communication should follow. At ordinary times, some parents always point out their children's shortcomings directly and talk endlessly. As a result, the child has no effect and turns a deaf ear. For example, "Why did you come back so late from school yesterday? I will go home immediately after school today, so the children feel that their parents are annoyed and rebellious. Therefore, they should pay attention to the language when communicating with their children. For example, "If you don't come home in time after school, your mother is worried and will come to you, okay?"

3. Pay attention to children's psychology and attitude. When communicating with children, parents must pay attention to their reactions, and don't always say that children are like shooting. Some children don't use words to oppose their parents, but they subconsciously react with actions or body language. At this time, it is up to adults to observe. From the child's eyes and body language, we can see his psychological state. If you are afraid of annoying feelings, you must change your way at this time. Changing the topic or adjusting the environment must not form a habit.