In the process of investigation and analysis, Zhang's Hanshu is a classic and philosophical work.
There was such a sentence that he was shocked. He said this: "The first love is me, which is the greatest happiness in her life!" "
As can be seen in the later tidbits, when Du Haitao asked Hans Zhang to share this sentence, Hans Zhang said, "At my best, if a girl gives me her first love, I will definitely make her the happiest person in my life."
Yes, if a man becomes the first love of others at the peak of his life, he will certainly love his woman like a princess.
But how many women are lucky enough to give a man his first love at his best?
Cousins Lianer and Puma are lovers from childhood to adulthood.
Sister Lian's family and brother Biao's family are separated by a wall and grew up together.
When Sister Lian takes her younger brother and sister to play house games, it will always be her mother, and her father's only choice is Biao Ge.
In the 1970s, compulsory education was not fully popularized, so going to school was a luxury for them.
The children of the poor are in charge early. As the boss of the family, when the three uncles and three aunts were busy with the work of the commune brigade, Sister Lian took care of a family job: taking care of her younger brothers and sisters and completing the housework inside and outside, which made them feel at ease a lot.
When it comes to land contracting, the situation of every household is gradually improving.
The animals of the production team were distributed to every household, and his uncle was lucky to get a horse that could plow the fields.
In order to let the horses plow energetically during busy farming, Sister Lian finished her housework in the morning and went to the river and the mountains to mow the grass and feed the horses.
At this time, my brothers and sisters caught a good opportunity and walked into the campus.
Sister Lian and brother Biao, who used to be parents, met again to mow the grass.
Brother Biao always mows the grass for Sister Lian first, and then lets Sister Lian rest before cutting the cows assigned to him.
The grass for horses is different from that for cows. Cows don't pick their mouths, but Brother Pubiao cuts grass quickly and can cut off a backpack in the blink of an eye.
Brother Biao has a plum tree at home. In early autumn, Brother Biao would secretly pick a bag of plums from home and then put them into Sister Lian's pocket.
At that time, eating a candy was a luxury, not to mention plums were the only fruit in the countryside.
Sometimes when we go out to mow the grass together and see a hole in Brother Biao's clothes, Sister Lian will ask Brother Biao to take off his clothes and mend them for him.
In an era when all marriages are arranged by parents, the word "love" is rarely used, not to mention that our village is in the Naoshan area, and the information is more occluded.
When it came to marriage, the threshold of his uncle's house was quickly broken by the matchmaker, but the Puma family never invited the matchmaker to his uncle's house.
Because Pu Biao has five brothers and sisters in his family, it is not easy for his parents to support them.
Marry their eldest brother, build a house and clean it up.
In the end, I chose Lianjie's husband's family in Sichuan, and my life was relatively comfortable. I heard that even my sister's husband's family has built a big tile house.
After Sister Lian got married, Cousin Pu also packed up and went to work in the city.
Many years later, I heard Wang Qi's Waiting for You for Three Thousand Years, and I understood Cousin Pu's mood at that time: the wedding procession arrived at the door, firecrackers exploded, and everyone in the village was filled with joy. Brother Biao's heart was shattered by firecrackers. There was nothing he could do but quietly wipe his tears and look at the wedding car that had gone away.
When I went back to my hometown some time ago, I saw the two-story building of Puma's house standing in the village, which reminded me of Sister Lian.
If Cousin Pu's family is not four brothers and has a rich family, it may be Sister Lian who lives in Xiaoyanglou.
Sister Lianer was violently abused by her ex-husband less than two years after she married in Li Chuan. She stubbornly divorced her children.
After the divorce, I was afraid of being poked by the villagers, so I didn't go home much. I lived in my uncle's house and was introduced to marry in Shanxi.
The love between Sister Lian and Brother Biao did not develop according to the plot of "All shall be well, jack shall have Jill".
Now both of them have their own families. Sister Lian's twin daughters remain married, and Brother Biao's son has reached the age of marriage.
The circumstances at that time separated them.
The past cannot be traced, and we can only give infinite support to our children's marriage, so as to comfort the sadness and regret that we can't walk together in those years.
In ancient times, there was a pair of lovers who left sadness and regret, namely Lu You and his cousin Tang Wan in the Southern Song Dynasty.
/kloc-At the age of 0/9, Lu You married his childhood cousin Tang Wan, and they were a loving couple after marriage.
This also caused Liu Mu's dissatisfaction with his daughter-in-law, forcing Lu You to abandon Tang Wan.
Lu you begged his mother for this, but there was no change. Finally, they were forced to separate.
One spring day a few years later, Lu You met Tang Wan who was traveling with her husband in his hometown of Shenyuan.
Tang Wan arranged wine and food, invited Lu You to drink together, and talked about consoling herself.
The heart is not reconciled, but also touches the feelings. He was drunk and wrote "Chai Fengtou" on the wall of the Temple of God.
Red crisp hands, Huang Teng wine, mancheng spring willow; East wind evil, a cup of sorrow, a few years apart, wrong, wrong, wrong!
Spring is as old as ever, people are empty and thin, and tears are red and sad; Peach blossom falls, idle pool pavilion, although the mountain alliance is there, it is difficult to hold books, mo, mo, mo!
After Lu You wrote the inscription, he took a deep look at Tang Wan and left in disappointment.
Tang Wan stood in front of the wall and watched "Hairpin Phoenix" several times. She couldn't control her affection any more and burst into tears.
Back home, she and a "Hairpin Phoenix":
The world is thin, human feelings are evil, and it is easy to fall when the rain is sent late. The breeze is dry and the tears are residual. If you have to worry, just say it alone. Difficult, difficult, difficult!
People become different, today is not yesterday, and sick souls are often thousands of miles away. The horn sounded cold and the night was hazy. Afraid of being asked questions, swallow your tears and pretend to be happy. Hide, hide, hide!
Tang Wan soon died of grief.
The love between Lu You and Tang Wan is sad, but it makes people yearn for a pure love in life.
The night in the city is very bright, but one of the lights is waiting for you to get home tired. Will you yearn for it?
The winter night in the city is very cold, but a steaming table of food is waiting for you. Will you look forward to it?
The urban workplace is like a battlefield, but if one of them hugs you and waits for dinner, will you be infatuated?
First love is the purest love that people meet at the best age. If the first love is mutual, it is the greatest happiness for each other.
Life is long, love slowly, work hard and be happy.