A person's ability = the sum of all the resources he+he can mobilize!
A person's ability = the sum of all the resources he+he can mobilize!
Say the important things three times. The reason is that I feel particularly distressed to see too many "good people" around me who don't know how to use their power and make themselves too tired to vomit blood. Including me, I used to do everything with one shoulder, and I still enjoy this feeling of ability. The problem is that because there are too many things and I don't know how to say no, my work and life are in a mess and nothing is done well.
Learn to borrow money from others.
In summing up why he succeeded in winning the world, Liu Bang said: "I am not as good as the ovary (Zhang's ovary). I am not as good as Xiao He in treating the country, comforting the people, paying salaries and providing endless food. Even a million people will win the battle and accept the attack. I am not as good as Han Xin. "
It was Liu Bang who knew how to borrow from all the talented people around him that made him respect himself. It was Xiang Yu who lost his job because he couldn't hire talented people, so he hated Wujiang River. Xunzi said in "Encouraging Learning" that "the gentleman's nature is the same, and the goodness lies in personal leave", which is also the truth.
Remember the rule of 28
An online celebrity who achieved tens of millions of assets at a young age said that he is a very ordinary person, and the rapid accumulation of assets in just a few years mainly benefited from his understanding of the "28 Rule". A person only has 24 hours a day, and she just chooses the most important 20% to do it by the 28 th rule, and gives up or gives the rest to others. Then in the most important 20%, continue to apply the 28 rule, choose the most important 20% to do the best, that's it, and ensure that everything is done to the extreme, so that today's achievements can be achieved.
Coincidentally, I saw a Japanese best-selling author talking about his successful experience before, and he also said that he began to succeed from a meticulous "farming type" to a "hunting type" with a close eye on the target. What you need to do is to find the "most important 20% prey", and then put all your eggs in one basket and go all out to ensure success.
Only do what you are good at.
Ted Ted Williams mentioned a point in his influential textbook The Science of Hitting: The secret of high hit rate is not to hit every ball, but to hit the ball only in the "sweet zone (ideal zone)" and ignore other areas. This strategy is the secret of Ted's success. He doesn't force home runs, he just plays high probability.
We can also learn from Ted in our work and life. We just need to find out the most important and beneficial things for ourselves, and the rest can be strategically abandoned or entrusted to others.
An entrepreneur once took care of work and family at the same time, which led to physical and mental exhaustion. It was not until he invited his aunt, who was a housekeeper, that he finally began to understand and concentrated all his energy on starting a successful business. There are many such examples, and it is the key to find out which is the most important 20%.
Know how to replace resources
Some people may say that the examples you cited are all successful people and great men in history. How can we borrow money as an ordinary office worker? How to borrow money? In fact, it is precisely because we are ordinary people that we should understand leverage. And those bosses are only clearly aware of their own advantages and are good at leveraging to become bosses.
The key to borrowing power is to know how to replace resources and exchange what you have for what you don't have. It is in the process of mutual communication and help that people gradually deepen their understanding and trust.
What resources can be borrowed? Other people's wisdom, other people's time, other people's physical strength, other people's contacts, other people's goods, other people's funds and so on. Nowadays, many young people don't have everything to start a business. Some managers lend them money and have business incubation services. Moreover, we must be good at discovering the value to others, in order to better repay them and make the relationship deeper and closer.
Give up perfectionism
Learn from others and remember perfectionism, otherwise you can only do it yourself until you are unable to cope. Only by letting go of unimportant things can we free up our hands to achieve our career.
In my opinion, family, health, friends and a job I love are the most important, so I don't hesitate to spend energy, money and feelings on it. Thanks to this, many people are right and wrong, and trivial matters really don't have time to take care of. I firmly believe that where my focus is, what kind of person I will become, and life will give me a fair return.
It is not difficult to balance life.
Then, what if we are insatiable and want to take care of work, life, study, health, family, friends and entertainment at the same time? On the one hand, you should abandon the perfectionism mentioned above and learn from others. On the other hand, we can do it in stages, such as going to the yoga studio for exercise after work on Monday, getting together with friends after work on Tuesday, traveling with our families on weekends and so on.
Don't take care of it every day, but keep dynamic balance for a long time. This method was invented by Zuckerberg's sister. Although she graduated from Harvard, high flyers was puzzled about how to balance her life, until she was delighted to find that she could take care of everything in stages and then maintain a long-term overall balance.
A person's advantage is his value. Take the time to polish the 20% that is most important to you, make yourself irreplaceable, and then deepen the relationship with people around you through resource replacement, which will be the embodiment of a person starting to succeed.