Liang Qichao was a thinker, politician, educator, historian, writer and first-class teacher in modern China.

He has nine children, all excellent. The eldest son Liang Sicheng, the second son Liang Siyong and the fifth son Liang Qili are all academicians of China, the third son Liang Sizhong is a Kuomintang officer and graduated from West Point Military Academy, the fourth son Liang Sida is an economic researcher at Nankai University, the eldest daughter Liang is an expert in poetry research, the second daughter is a famous librarian, the third daughter Liang Siyi is a social activist, and the fourth daughter is an early revolutionary of the New Fourth Army.

Choose ten sentences from Liang Qichao's book and give them to everyone to share Liang Qichao's teachings.

1, Mo Wen harvested, but asked about farming.

"As for the future success, to what extent, of course, is limited by genius. In my life, I believe Ceng Wenzheng's two words most:' Mo Wen gains, but requires training. What will you achieve in the future? What do you want to do with it now? What's the hurry?

On the one hand, we should not be complacent, on the other hand, we should not be timid and complacent. We should strive to be where we are now, so that we can be fearless and not complacent, and we will always make contributions to society. I have learned a lot in my life. I hope you can all apply my spirit. "

——1February 6, 927

Testimony: Liang Qichao educated his children with Zeng Guofan's famous saying, "Mo Wen reaps, but strives for cultivation." This sentence is to show that when we do things, we should not only think about returns and returns, but also think about doing things well and cultivating our own world, and naturally there will be good results.

2. No cramming education.

"You don't have to be too radical in your study. It's like canning. The more you jam, the more anxious you are, and you may not benefit. "

Testimony: Liang Qichao opposed cramming education. What he said in his letter was mostly words of comfort and persuasion, and he rarely put forward any specific learning goals for his children.

Step 3 make friends with children

"I wander in the yard at night, miss you on the moon and sing here. Do you hear me?"

Testimony: I'm afraid it's hard to imagine what China was like 100 years ago. What we see from those old photos are, without exception, long braids, three-inch golden lotus, robes and jackets and dull eyes. At this time, Liang Qichao called his children "treasures" and "treasures" in his letters to his children. Liang Qichao's education for children is characterized by making friends with children.

Mr. Liang writes more letters to his children than his children write to him. As a father, he personally wrote letters to his children, talked with them personally, and talked with them about study, making friends, love, life, politics and so on. Teacher Liang explained everything, not paternalistic, which opened a big gap with parents today.

The eldest sons Liang Sicheng and Lin.

4. Only when parents have fun can children have fun.

"Being able to write an aesthetic travel book is an unprecedented work of China. Besides, you are on a fast honeymoon trip, and you can overflow a lot of warm and clean love between the lines. It can be a valuable work made with snacks. "

——1May 24, 928, to Liang Sicheng and Lin.

Speech: After Liang Sicheng and Lin got married, they went to Europe for their honeymoon. Their honeymoon trip is romantic and warm, and everywhere they go, they will make a purposeful inspection. The classic architecture in Europe makes them realize the profoundness of architectural art, which is a space crossing and a real academic journey. This kind of wedding trip is more meaningful than the current sightseeing tour simply for novelty and fashion. Liang Qichao instructed them to write travel notes in his letter.

The second son, Liang Siyong.

5. Being a person should be a little "naive"

"When I say' Don't be childish', I mean to tell you to make your own decisions in business, such as doing your homework, minding your own business and not relying on others. As for being a little childish, that's good. You see, dad sometimes has a childlike innocence. "

-1925 July 10 "to children"

Testimony: Liang Qichao said that there are two kinds of childishness, one is willful and childish; The other is what we call childlike innocence.

Sanzi Liang Sizhong

6, the key to learning

"As far as learning is concerned, there are always two work cycles, namely' simmering' and' simmering'. Only by simmering slowly can digestion be harmonious and true. I see that you have survived for three years, and this year it is time to stew with fire. "

-129/927 for children

Testimony: big fire and slow fire stew mean to deal with the relationship between learning knowledge and digesting knowledge.

Four sons, Liang Sida and his wife.

7. Being an official is not a place to live.

"Being an official is a fragile character, easy to get used to laziness and cleverness, and not a place to settle down."

——1965438+65438 in 2006+1October1/for Liang.

Testimony: Every parent has a lot of life experiences that they have experienced and passed on to their children. Liang Qichao said in his letter to his daughter Liang that being an official can easily damage personality and make people lazy and slippery, which is not a place to settle down. Liang Qichao should be very reluctant to let his children be officials.

Eldest daughter Liang

8, conscientious, is the first person.

"No matter how big or small the cause in the world is, as long as you do your best within your responsibility, you are first-class."

-1923 1 1.5 "geiliang"

Testimony: Liang Qichao was the first person to educate children and do his duty. This standard seems simple, but it is actually a very high requirement. Many parents want their children to do great things and create great things. In fact, the first thing people should do is to take their own responsibilities. A person who doesn't know how to take responsibility will soon fail even if he has achieved great things.

Second daughter Liang Sizhuang.

9. I will never blame you for your homework.

"Strong this year's exam, even if it doesn't matter. Don't worry, because he barely got into college. Your brother and sister are both very hardworking. I don't blame you for doing your homework, but it is because you are late for class and sick that I am very upset. "

-1928 May 13 to Liang

Testimony: When his daughter Liang Sizhuang just went abroad to study, she couldn't adapt for a while. Liang Qichao wrote in his letter: "As for not being admitted to the university, what does it matter? Reading does not require a diploma. The thicker the wall, the better. " It can be seen that Liang Qichao is concerned about whether the child's foundation is solid, and the so-called achievements and scores are only superficial things.

Three daughters Liang Siyi

10, stay optimistic.

"I have a very knowledgeable, extremely healthy and great outlook on life, and I am always optimistic under any circumstances."

-1928 May 13 to Liang

Testimony: Liang Qichao believes that it is more important to teach children to establish a prudent and strong outlook on life than to educate them to learn specific knowledge. This kind of understanding and strong outlook on life can keep children optimistic in adversity and help them overcome difficulties.