The Fourth Plenary Session of the 16th CPC Central Committee put forward a new proposition of "building a harmonious socialist society". College students are very valuable human resources, the hope of the nation, the future of the motherland and an important force in building a harmonious society. Einstein said: "The goal of a school should always be that when young people leave school, they should be harmonious people, not experts." Higher education should attach importance to the shaping of college students' harmonious personality, which is not only the need of their healthy growth, but also the call of building a harmonious society. 1. Shaping the harmonious personality of college students is the call of building a harmonious society, which is a comprehensive and harmonious society between man and himself, man and nature, and man and society. Among these three kinds of harmonious relations, the harmony of man himself is the fundamental premise of the harmonious development of society, and it is also the product of the harmony between man and nature and between man and society. To create a harmonious society is to make people have a sound and harmonious personality, a correct outlook on the world, life and values, and handle the complex relationships between individuals and themselves, individuals and nature, and individuals and society, so as to accept themselves, integrate into nature and integrate into society. College students shoulder the historical mission and the people's trust. Whether their personality is healthy and their quality is improved is directly related to the rise and fall of the country and the nation. Quality education in colleges and universities should focus on cultivating modern people with harmonious personality as the core, and then improve the comprehensive quality of college students. College students are in an important period of personality development. Facing the challenges of the new century, college students should carefully prepare their own personalities to adapt to life in the new century. Serious personality disorder will often reduce psychological adaptability, resulting in social problems such as moral anomie, illegal crime and suicide, which will affect social stability and harmony. Therefore, it is not only one of the important goals of mental health education in colleges and universities, but also the call of building a harmonious society to strengthen the harmonious personality education of college students and cultivate their harmonious personality facing the world, the future and modernization. Second, the construction of harmonious personality and harmonious personality model of college students Harmony is a state of things, which refers to the coordination and symmetry between subsystems, between subsystem elements and between elements themselves. It includes three levels: first, micro-harmony, that is, the harmony of the elements that constitute the subsystem of things, which is the basis of the overall harmony of things; The second is the harmony of the middle view, that is, the harmony between the elements that constitute the subsystem of things; The third is macro-harmony, that is, the harmony between subsystems that constitute things, that is, the harmony of things as a unified whole. Professor Hou Shangzhi clearly pointed out that harmony is the rational choice of globalization. There is no war in world harmony, no war in national harmony, no ecological crisis in world harmony, no crime in harmony between man and society, and no anxiety in personal inner harmony. Personality is a comprehensive noun with multiple meanings. We use this concept on the basis of integrating the following three meanings, namely "psychological personality characterized by personality, temperament and ability"; Moral standards or moral qualities related to personal integrity, moral quality and personality sentiment; Legal personality '( 1 legal capacity) which is inseparable from the legal subject. Harmonious personality is the relatively best personality that can lead a harmonious life, which is formed by individuals consciously and harmoniously organizing their own internal qualities and external conditions. It refers to a sound and complete personality integrated by various quality systems that constitute personality, various qualities that constitute quality systems and various qualities themselves. For example, the harmony of a person's moral quality, psychological quality and legal quality is the first level of harmony; The harmony of world outlook, outlook on life and values in a person's moral quality constitutes the second level of harmony; The harmony of a person's world outlook, outlook on life and values constitutes the third level of harmony; Wait a minute. It is on the basis of these numerous harmonies that a person's harmonious personality can be integrated. Harmonious personality is formed in repeated activities and harmonious behaviors, and it will also be shown in repeated activities and behaviors. The outstanding performance of harmonious personality is to live a harmonious life. Marxist theory of human's free and all-round development holds that the development of personality is not limited to the psychological level, but should be the all-round development of psychology, morality and law, that is, it should be the harmonious development of psychological personality, moral personality and legal personality to form a harmonious personality. Marxism also points out that only when people pursue social practice activities between themselves and nature, between themselves and society, between themselves and themselves, can they realize self-affirmation, self-improvement and self-realization, and truly realize the harmony of personality. Combined with the current situation of social reform and development in China and the reality of college students, I think that the harmonious personality of college students should reflect the requirements of the times and personal development, meet the requirements of a harmonious society for the development of human quality, and reflect the personality characteristics of modern people. Based on this, we can construct different levels of harmonious personality models of college students. Harmonious personality model includes: harmonious psychological personality model, harmonious moral personality model and harmonious legal personality model. Harmonious psychological personality model: 1. Be able to know yourself correctly. That is, we can fully understand ourselves, evaluate ourselves and accept ourselves; Self-esteem, self-confidence, self-love and self-improvement; Self-regulation, self-monitoring and self-improvement. 2. The intelligent structure is sound and reasonable. With good observation, memory, thinking, attention and imagination, there is no cognitive obstacle, and various cognitive abilities are organically combined to play their due role. 3. Emotions and emotions are full and moderate. Positive emotions and emotions are dominant, and they have the ability to adjust and control emotions. 4. Harmonious interpersonal relationship. Communicate with others on an equal footing, respect, understand and trust each other, and establish good interpersonal relationships with others. 5. An optimistic attitude towards life. I am full of hope and confidence in my life and future, have a strong interest in study and work, face difficulties and setbacks correctly, and have the courage to overcome them. 6. Have good social adaptability. Be able to observe, understand and care about society correctly with an open mind, have a strong sense of responsibility for social development, and be able to adjust itself quickly to meet the needs of society. Harmonious moral personality model: 1. Have a scientific world outlook, outlook on life and values, the scientific spirit of seeking truth and the humanistic spirit of seeking goodness and beauty, and firm and correct beliefs and goals. 2. Have a strong sense of social responsibility. Conscious of the relationship between personal development and social development, brave in taking responsibility and willing to make their own contribution to the sustainable development of mankind. 3. Have a healthy and lofty aesthetic taste. Have a correct aesthetic attitude and taste, have the ability to distinguish between true and false, good and evil, honor and disgrace, beauty and ugliness, and can increase the truth, goodness and beauty of human society with their own actions. 4. Have a series of excellent qualities with diligence as the core. A series of excellent qualities, such as firmness, self-discipline, frugality, fairness, courage, responsibility and creativity, are formed and developed in the process of hard work. 5. Treat people sincerely, have strong sympathy and be ready to help others. Has the quality of simplicity, love and tolerance, and can treat others with an equal attitude, respect others, care for others and help others. Harmonious legal personality model: 1. Have civic awareness, legal awareness and the spirit of the rule of law. Participate in political and legal life, enjoy and perform political and legal rights and obligations. Compliance with the law does not come from external repression and coercion, but from one's own will. 2. Know the law, understand the law, abide by the law, protect the law, do not do illegal things, and safeguard the dignity of the law. 3. Pursue social fairness and justice, and define your rights and obligations. The excellent qualities of the above three levels of harmonious personality exist in individuals at the same time and are reflected in different relationship levels. They are different, interrelated and blended with each other. Among them, mental personality is the main line of harmonious personality, which runs through, legal personality is the bottom line of harmonious personality, and moral personality is the highest realm of harmonious personality. If harmonious psychological personality reflects the harmonious relationship between man and himself, then harmonious moral personality and legal personality reflect the harmonious relationship between man, man and nature, man and society. The above three levels of quality can be used as a standard to judge whether a person has a harmonious personality or not, and also as a goal to strengthen his personality cultivation. The construction of harmonious personality of college students is a dynamic process. It will be endowed with unique characteristics of the times with the changes of the times. Thirdly, the shaping of harmonious personality of college students. School education plays an important role in the formation and development of personality. Therefore, strengthening the personality education of college students from psychological, moral and legal levels is a necessary way to shape their harmonious personality and improve their comprehensive quality. Shaping harmonious personality of college students should focus on the following work. (1) Grasp the spiritual essence of education and establish a new concept of harmonious personality education. The lack of personality of college students is undoubtedly a mistake of higher education. Therefore, higher education must establish a new concept of harmonious personality education with the coordinated and unified development of psychological personality, moral personality and legal personality. Especially in the 2 1 century full of challenges and opportunities, only by cultivating people with harmonious personality can we calmly cope with the challenges and seize the opportunities, so as not to lose our way in the face of complicated external temptations. Therefore, the more society develops, the more people with harmonious personality are needed. Harmonious personality is not only the guarantee of individual's happy life, but also the premise of individual's sustainable development. As the main battlefield for cultivating high-level talents, colleges and universities should grasp the spiritual essence of education and establish a new concept of harmonious personality education. (2) Explore the basic ways to shape the harmonious personality of college students 1. Strengthen the ideological and moral education of college students and guide them to establish a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values. The establishment of college students' correct world outlook, outlook on life and values is the fundamental key to finally solve the life problems and psychological problems encountered in life. 2. Strengthen the unity of scientific and cultural education and humanistic spirit education. Strengthen the unity of scientific and cultural education and humanistic spirit education, and promote college students to form a personality spirit of loving science, pursuing truth, being rigorous and hardworking, being dedicated and enterprising, being brave in criticism, innovation and selfless dedication. 3. Strengthen mental health education. Carrying out mental health education, making psychological adjustment and eliminating psychological crisis are effective ways to correct college students' personality deviation. 4. Strengthen legal awareness education. Improve college students' legal awareness, constantly enhance their civic awareness and sense of social responsibility, correctly exercise their civil rights, strictly fulfill their civic obligations, learn the law, abide by the law, use and protect the law, act according to law, exercise self-discipline according to law, and safeguard national interests and their legitimate interests according to law. 5. Strengthen aesthetic education. Infiltrate aesthetic education into moral education, intellectual education and physical education to cultivate college students' ability to feel beauty, appreciate beauty, appreciate beauty and create beauty, so that they can reach the highest state of harmony and unity of truth, goodness and beauty and realize the perfection of personality. 6. Strengthen social practice education. Guide college students to find their own frame of reference in social practice, find the best combination point between individuals and society, enhance their sense of responsibility to society, the country and the people, and promote the development of their own personality. 7. Establish a good campus cultural living environment. Schools should create a good material and spiritual environment and carry out a variety of scientific, technological, cultural, artistic and sports activities, so that college students can constantly shape a healthy and harmonious personality in a subtle way. 8. Strengthen the self-education of college students. Self-education is an effective way to develop positive self-concept and perfect personal personality. Through self-observation's self-analysis, judgment, self-adjustment and self-reflection, we can guide ourselves to self-knowledge, self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement and perfection, and form a subjective personality. In a word, the shaping of college students' harmonious personality is an important part of building a harmonious society, which should be the goal and direction pursued by the teaching reform of higher education and an important part of college students' all-round development education. By focusing on shaping, college students can realize the unity of knowledge, wisdom and harmonious personality. References: [1] Zhao Zhongli, Xu. Einstein's Translation Yearbook [M], Shanghai Science and Technology Publishing House, 1979. [2] Liu Changming. Develop revolution [J]. Journal of Jinan University, 2002, (1) 5- 10. 200 1( 1).[4] Tan, Fan Fumin. On Personality and Personality Education [J] Tsinghua University Education Research, 2000( 1). [5] Wang Benfa, Chen Yanhua. Harmonious personality: the pursuit of quality education in colleges and universities [J] Jinan University, Russia.

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