He may resent it, even after 20 years, which will make his relationship with his parents particularly cold and skeptical about life. Serious point may also have a strong violent mentality, because his parents gave it to him, hand in hand to let him feel the pain caused by violence. It also made him feel how simple and pure it is to solve problems with violence. Right or wrong, as long as violence is in place, white can turn black, which affects the formation of his three views.
In addition, if he does make a serious mistake, it is understandable for his parents to beat and scold him once, which will generally not cause too much harm to the child. Because this is a tradition handed down by us for more than 5,000 years, the so-called dutiful son is born with a stick. For children's stubborn behavior, if parents can't effectively solve it through oral education or other guidance, it will be better to let him understand things as soon as possible and learn lessons.
Of course, beating and cursing is also an art, and how to grasp this degree is crucial. Many parents play too lightly, which is neither too painful nor too painful for their children, and the giggle will pass at once. If you hit him too hard, the child is likely to get hurt, so he will feel that his parents are too rude to him and even his own children have the heart to do so, which seriously affects his physical and mental health.
Therefore, I personally think that the education of beating and cursing can exist, but we should not beat and scold all the time. When the child makes a big mistake, take out our killer weapon, a tiny bamboo stick, and let him taste the taste of fried meat with bamboo shoots. If he just made some small mistakes, then he can just give verbal advice. Generally speaking, he can still listen.