inference method
First of all, it is only reasonable to let children understand the unfavorable situation caused by parents' divorce and communicate their feelings with children. This is the premise of educating children. Secondly, let children know right and wrong, not good and evil, beauty and ugliness, and honor and disgrace. They should always teach their children some moral standards and codes of conduct and establish their own codes of conduct. The content of reasoning education should be infectious.
Example method
Childhood is a period of imitation, which needs the exemplary role of role models. It can be said that children grow up watching their parents' backs, so it is very important for parents to set an example for their children. If parents behave well and set an example, it will naturally have a great influence on their children's psychology. Children don't need to give orders, they will follow their parents' example.
Reward and punishment method
Praise should go deep into the child's heart, arouse certain emotional experience, make the child feel happy and proud, and thus inspire him to realize better wishes. Criticism and punishment must be cautious, respect children's self-esteem, and consider children's acceptance. Always observe whether rewards and punishments have negative effects, so as to determine whether the way and degree are appropriate.