Family is the best early education environment, life is the best early education scene, and parents are also the best early education teachers. So how should parents educate their children correctly and effectively? The following are the methods I share with parents to educate their children. I hope I can help you!

Parents' methods of educating their children

1. Take a peaceful approach.

Some parents think that "jade is not a tool" and "it is not easy for children to become talents without beating and cursing". Therefore, whenever a child makes a mistake, it is not a calm reason, but a slap in the face. Treating children rudely like this will not only make them realize their mistakes, but also leave a shadow in their hearts, and their personality will easily become extreme.

2. Set an example.

Children can see what parents say and do. Their imitation ability is very strong, and empty preaching is far less influential than actual action. Isn't there such a public service advertisement? The mother washed his grandmother's feet, and the younger son saw it and learned to wash his mother's feet. Similarly, "fish begins to stink at the head", if the parents behave badly, it is hard to say that the educated children are not copies of failure. It can be seen that the words and deeds of adults are really important.

3. The opinions of adults should be unified.

Sometimes parents need to communicate, agree on the same thing and have a unified attitude. You are forbidden to gossip. You play the white face and I play the red face. Don't scold each other in front of the children. Otherwise, children often can't agree and don't know who to listen to. Over time, the status and prestige of adults in children's minds will disappear, and it will be more difficult to discipline children.

4. Respect children's interests.

Learning is important, but interest is the source of stimulating children's creativity. What society needs now is not a reading machine, but an all-round generalist. Therefore, if the child shows a certain hobby, don't interfere, but encourage him, maybe this will become a skill of the child.

Parents' suggestions on educating their children

Make friends with children.

Many parents put themselves in a very high position, and their views and behaviors, even if they are wrong, must be right for their children. Just like the former emperor, whatever the emperor did was right in the eyes of the courtiers.

Can't do this, parents should be friends with their children, they made mistakes, and parents have the courage to point out their mistakes; Parents should boldly point out their mistakes and parents must correct them.

2. Pay attention to children's hobbies.

Children's hobbies, if well developed, will generally become specialties, so parents must not deprive their children of the right to acquire specialties. Keep an eye on children and see what their hobbies are. Parents must try their best to support them except for illegal and criminal activities.

For example, when I was a child, I especially liked "practicing martial arts". At that time, my brothers would go to the yard to make gestures whenever they were free, but every time my father would severely reprimand me: "Are you two brothers sick?"

Parents, please don't do this. You must support your children's hobbies. In today's society, anyone without special skills is doomed to be eliminated by society.

3. Change the tone and way of speaking

This is very, very important. The tone of your speech to children should be changed, instead of ordering a slave, you should always say things like "I hope you will/won't …" and "I hope you will/won't …", and there should be more requests and discussions in your tone than orders.

4. Give children a space to try independently.

I believe many parents will encounter such a situation. Suddenly, one day, the children tried to achieve something again and again. At this time, parents should pay attention. You'd better give him an encouraging word: "honey, I believe you can!" " Then turn around and leave. Never stare at him or walk around him.

Parents' skills in educating their children

1. Family is the bond of emotional support, so we should "talk about love".

As the most basic unit in society, family also has the important function of providing emotional support for human development. It can closely connect all family members through blood relationship, attachment relationship and brotherly relationship, and become the bond of each member's inner emotional support.

No matter how old we grow up and how far we go, the emotional support between family members will always be the source of our spiritual strength. From the moment of birth, babies need the constant emotional support of caregivers, which is what we often call unconditional love for children.

2. Family is the starting point of social development and needs to be "reasonable"

From the perspective of human development, in all societies, the most important function of the family is to reproduce and socialize offspring through parenting. Although the family is only one of the sub-environmental systems involved in a person's socialization process, its influence on children's socialization development is earlier and more lasting. Other social environments will also affect children's social development, but in terms of its strength and breadth, it can never be compared with families.

Social development refers to the process in which children acquire ideas, motivations, values and behaviors that are considered important and appropriate by older members of society. First of all, socialization is a way to regulate children's behavior and control their unreasonable impulses; Secondly, the knowledge, skills, motivations and aspirations acquired by children in the process of social development can make them better adapt to their social environment; Finally, children with good social development will grow into capable, adaptable and prosocial adults.

Therefore, in the most basic and important social system, parents should not only "love" their children, but also love, respect, accept and give unconditional love to them. Moreover, we must be "reasonable" to children, have requirements, restrictions and constraints on children, and set boundaries and rules for children.