1, give children free space
Many parents like to do everything for their children. Parents have arranged everything for their children. Actually, this is not good. Children need their own space for their growth, including study and life. If parents help their children arrange all this, it is easy for them to get bored and have rebellious psychology, which is very unfavorable to their healthy growth.
2. Encourage more than protect.
Family education abroad encourages children more than protects them. It will make them do what they want to do but haven't done, learn from practice, cultivate their interest and ability, and build up their self-confidence. In China, however, the family is more about protecting than trying, and everything must be supervised or agreed by parents, which leads to children's over-dependence on their parents and loss of self-worth cognition and evaluation.
3. Guidance is more than indoctrination.
"If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you" is a sentence that many parents say to their children after failure. But in fact, guidance will lead children to think and make judgments on the basis of thinking, which may be right or wrong, but it is also a process of growth. Instilling is passive acceptance for children, which will constrain their desire to explore, thus affecting the establishment of their self-confidence. In foreign education, children are guided more than indoctrinated, and parents usually give their own opinions, leaving room for their children to think and choose.
4. Encourage children to go out to exercise more.
With the popularity of mobile phones, computers and other electronic products, more and more children like to stay at home, immersed in their own virtual world, and contact with the outside world has become something they are increasingly unwilling to do. Parents must encourage their children to go out to play more, do more exercise and actively explore nature, especially children in the learning stage, which can not only relieve the learning pressure, but also enhance their immunity.
5. Explore children's talents
360 lines, each line is a champion. Modern psychology has long found that the vast majority of children actually have great potential. The development potential of the same person is different in all aspects, and most people have the potential to dominate in some aspects. If a person can realize his potential and advantages early in life, take measures as soon as possible and try to explore them, he is likely to achieve something in some ways. As parents, we should be good at discovering children's talents and showing them opportunities, instead of paying too much attention to children's achievements and stipulating that children can only do fixed things.
On the issue of educating children, Chinese and foreign educational methods are quite different. As parents, we should also be good at learning and find the most suitable educational method for children to make them better.