Parents and friends facing school choice, is your view on school choice correct?
The following are some opinions expressed by career planning experts with 10 years of educational experience on how to choose a school from the perspective of pure education, which may inspire you when you choose a school.
First, two misunderstandings to be avoided in choosing a school
The first misunderstanding: many parents think it is most important to choose a good junior high school or high school for their children, but in fact, the importance of educating their children is arranged in order, which should be like this: family education >; Kindergarten education > primary school > junior high school > senior high school.
It is undeniable that every stage of life is very important, but the best time for education should be primary school and before primary school.
Scientific research shows that children have gained 50% intelligence before the age of 4, the remaining 20% are between the ages of 4 and 7, and the remaining 30% are between the ages of 7 and 17.
Not only intelligence, but also physical development and personality formation, most of which are completed before the age of 7.
Therefore, the period from birth to 7 years old is the golden age that parents need to pay close attention to and grasp.
The second misunderstanding: most parents think that everything will be fine if they choose a prestigious school, which is extremely wrong.
On the one hand, the education of many famous schools in China is not necessarily excellent, but only focuses on some special advantages, such as the advantages of students. There are so many students in such schools that it is difficult for teachers to pay attention to every child.
On the other hand, if children's academic performance is not good and there is a big gap with their classmates, children will become less and less confident and do harm to children.
Second, choosing the right school requires four factors.
1. Master some correct school selection methods.
Shop around and choose a school. When choosing a school, don't blindly follow the crowd. Need in-depth understanding and investigation. Like who founded the school? What is the school's value orientation? What is the philosophy of running a school? How is the teacher's equipment? What about the management team? What culture does the school advocate? Whether the teacher has love and so on. Be good at analyzing and judging a school from many angles.
It is important to suggest that if children can participate in choosing schools by themselves, discuss with them and collect school information together, it will be more helpful for them to become interested in new schools. This process of choosing a school itself has strong educational significance and practicality, which gives them a sense of mission and responsibility. Senior children should be allowed to make their own choices, which will spur themselves to work harder and prove that their choices are correct.
2. Choose a school with foresight.
Social needs have changed. What society needs is people's real quality and ability, not a diploma. Therefore, when parents help their children choose a school, they need to consider it in the long run. A school that can give consideration to both skills and comprehensive quality can be called a rational choice. Children's education is actually divided into two parts, humanities education and skill acquisition. People's education is to make children grow into sound people, and skills education is to make children have the ability to make a living.
3. How to treat the money factor in the process of choosing a school?
In the process of choosing a school, money is our main consideration. I want to say here that money is one of the factors to be considered, but if money is regarded as the decisive factor, it is all wet. Choosing a school is not like shopping. School choice? What did you buy for the child? Life? It is far more important than buying anything else.
A good teacher is more important than a good school.
What is a good school is actually a school with good teachers. The influence of teachers on children is definitely greater than that of schools. It is better to meet a good teacher in a good school than an ordinary teacher. If possible, parents should try their best to choose a good teacher for their children, including learning from others, listening to teachers' lessons and communicating with teachers themselves (and children).
A good school should give everyone a chance to shine in life!
Zhengzhou Vocational English IT College in Peking University in Qing Dynasty is affiliated to Peking University, and has carried out in-depth school-enterprise cooperation with universities in the province, with the aim of cultivating people. Not only learning technology, but also shaping personality, which has helped more than 800,000 junior and senior high school graduates achieve life counterattack. It provides a beautiful way for junior and senior high school students who can't get into prestigious schools to succeed in life.
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