Fan Deng is a considerate and good man. His father can handle the parent-child relationship well. He has many skills in dealing with parent-child relationship, which is worth learning by all parents. In the previous society, parents didn't receive more education, so within their limited knowledge, they thought that a good child could be educated only through sticks. However, in the new era, more emphasis should be placed on science. In my opinion, the following methods are very effective in cultivating children.

First, respect children's choices. Parents should respect their children's choices to the greatest extent. Children are independent individuals from the day they are born and should have the right to choose their own life path. Even if his choice is wrong and will bring him harm, then such harm should be borne by him and let him know how to take the road of life. Parents can't take the place of their children. In this process, parents only need to accompany their children and give them correct guidance.

Second, accompany the children. Every child has a very strong demand for parental companionship in childhood, because childhood children have a natural sense of dependence on their parents. Once this sense of dependence is not realized, adults will show great disadvantages and lack of security, and they will deliberately seek the satisfaction of security when interacting with people. This has a very serious impact on the development of children's personality and the establishment of three views. The companionship of parents can be said to have a far-reaching impact on children's life.

Third, learn to communicate with children. Don't think that children don't need to communicate when they are young. Many times, parents should put aside their own affairs and communicate well with their children. Only through communication can they understand what their inner world is like. Moreover, through communication, he can know that parents' love for him and their ideas often have certain contradictions, just because the two generations have different ideas and seek common ground while reserving differences through communication.