Incredible, it is such a sentence that the child's dry Kun is reversed! The key point of the following nine real cases is that parents really believe in their children.
No, not believe, believe! When the whole world doesn't believe in your children, you still believe in your children from the heart and never waver! Your firm belief is the last straw and the last psychological support for your child. If you don't believe it, the child will completely collapse!
The first case:
A child was extremely inferior because of stuttering, and his mother said to him:
"Son, this is because your mouth can't keep up with your clever head."
When this child grows up, he will be Jack Welch, the former CEO of General Electric Company.
The second case:
A short girl likes table tennis, and everyone thinks she is in a bad condition. But her father insisted on saying to her:
"You are excellent, really."
This girl is Deng Yaping.
The third situation:
A young woman failed in the postgraduate entrance examination twice, at the age of 28. When she struggled to give up, her mother told her:
"It's never too late to change yourself."
This young woman is Jing Yidan who was admitted to Beijing Broadcasting Institute as a graduate student at the age of 29.
The fourth situation:
When a father introduced his son to his stepmother, he said, "This is the worst boy in the whole community." Stepmother interface immediately said:
"You are wrong. He is not the worst boy in the whole community, but the smartest boy, and has not found a place to vent his enthusiasm. "
This child is Carnegie, who will create 28 golden rules of success in the future and help millions of ordinary people in Qian Qian embark on the bright road of success and wealth.
The fifth case:
A 10-year-old girl, because she is black, was blocked in front of the White House when she went out to travel. The father said to the child:
"If you want to improve the situation of our black people, the best way is to make extraordinary achievements. If you rush forward with double energy, you may get half the status of white people; If you are willing to work four times as hard, you can keep pace with white people; If you work eight times harder, you will definitely surpass the whites! "
This girl will become the first black female secretary of state in American history. She is rice.
The sixth situation:
When a boy/kloc-was 0/5 years old, he told his mother that he must run for president of the United States in the future, and her mother answered him like this:
"Son, I believe you can do it. My mother once had such a dream, but when I thought it was more appropriate for me to be a nurse that patients liked, I gave up. Now may be the best time for you to realize this dream. "
This child is Clinton, who will become the president of the United States in the future.
The seventh situation:
The child said: I want to jump to the moon. Mom smiled and said, "OK, but don't forget to come back!" " "
The child is Armstrong, the first man to land on the moon.
The eighth case:
Relatives and friends anxiously asked a mother, "Why is your child always in a daze?" Is there something wrong with your nerves? Didn't you take him to the hospital for examination earlier? "Mother said firmly:
"There is nothing wrong with my child. You don't understand. He is not in a daze, but in meditation. He must be a great university professor in the future. "
This boy is Einstein.
The ninth situation:
The toddler fell down and shouted to his father for help.
"Don't cry when you fall, get up and walk again, ok! 12 1, 12 1 ... "
The father looked at the child who fell and got up like a bystander. This child is Soong Ching Ling.
When we lament that children are disobedient, ignorant and don't like learning, have we ever reflected: What valuable words have we given our children all the time?