1. Never compare children, pay more attention to and discover different advantages of children, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and establish unique self-confidence for each child.
Don't discuss, criticize or scold another child in front of him. If you want to educate your children, you must avoid having other children present.
3. Don't always emphasize letting the young, the men let the women and so on. This practice will only make children who are forced to "let" feel rejected. Children are selfish, how can they hope to get complete love?
4. Reward and punishment should be treated equally. For example, if a child makes a mistake, no matter the master or slave, he will be punished together. When children make progress, we should praise one and encourage the other, so that children can feel deep brotherhood and share weal and woe.
5. Family resources should be allocated reasonably, such as spending the same time with children and responding to their demands fairly.
6. Cultivate Dabao's sense of responsibility, let him participate in the growth of his younger brother and sister, and let him accept new family members from the heart. If necessary, the resources at home can be appropriately tilted to Dabao.
I used to think that having two children is a complete life, and children will not be lonely in the future ... but when I really face two children, it is the biggest challenge for real parents!