Every parent wants to educate their children well, but sometimes they are really willing but helpless. Today, let's talk about seven problems that will be encountered slowly on the road to parenting.
1, wrong time
Many mothers may want to educate their children, but children must go to school or they must go to work. Without enough time, the matter passed.
It is suggested that mothers should make clear their position and tell their children what behaviors are unacceptable when there is not enough time. When there is enough time in the evening, we will continue to discuss with the children.
2. The wrong place
If children's mistakes happen in public places, there will be many people. The child cried willfully and even rolled on the ground in protest. Will you give in at this time? Of course not, even if there are more people watching, mom can't give up her position. Never let your child cling to your mother's nature, otherwise you will often encounter such things in the future.
3, the heart is too soft
Many children know that it is impossible to play tricks on others, and they begin to pretend to be wronged and kind. When their mother saw a pathetic look, her psychological defense line was immediately broken. Many mothers will eat soft and not hard, and begin to think it's no big deal. Let's talk about it later.
It is suggested that mother should not be soft-hearted and not be disturbed by your children. If you are always soft-hearted, children will think that what you say is just empty talk and not binding.
4, outsiders intercede
Every time we educate children, old people and others will say that children are still young and wait until they grow up. These people say nice things and do things well, so they just roll with the punches and roll with the punches
If the child makes a big mistake and others can't persuade him, then the mother will give up this opportunity to raise the child and make sure that the child clearly knows where he is wrong.
5. Mom's mood
When the child makes a mistake and the mother is in a good mood, she will go easy on the child outside the law; If a mother is in a bad mood, she will punish her children. Children are not our punching bag, so when educating children, it is best to calm down and calmly treat their success and failure.
6. Parents are not unified
If the child makes a mistake, the father says one thing and the mother says another, the child will be at a loss, and the two monks are puzzled. When educating children, whether the husband and wife agree or not, they should be educated in a unified way. The most taboo thing is what mom forbids, and dad secretly plays with children.
7. Different rules
This is a family with a second child. We must have the same rules for the same thing. What the boss is not allowed to do, the second is not allowed. Parents should remember, don't set a standard for the boss, if you prefer the younger, indulge the younger. The end result is that you cannot teach both children well.
Finally, parents are advised to take time to educate their children no matter how busy they are. Because you don't raise children now, it's not up to you to educate you when your children grow up.