1, learn to understand, because 10-year-old children are particularly eager for independence, but in fact they may be naive in many aspects, so we must understand the child's development stage.

2, learn to respect, can not say that parents hold me as parents have to listen to me, thus completely depriving children of their free space, we must respect their ideas and encourage them to go their own way.

3, learn to trust, the pressure of life, the pressure of school study, and the pressure of parents on their children. For children, he doesn't understand or understand many aspects. You should trust him completely at this time. After understanding and trust, he can respect his parents, respect his teachers and be interested in learning, instead of blaming his children blindly.