1. Establish rule education
When interacting with children, mothers are more in physical contact and language communication with children, while fathers are more in game communication with children through sports. In terms of rules of the game, mothers tend to accommodate their children, while fathers pay more attention to "establishing rules". In other words, children will know what rules are from their fathers, observe how their fathers face abusive people, how to face setbacks and resolve crises, and then imitate them.
2. Form gender awareness
Fatherly love has an important influence on the gender development of boys and girls. In the communication with boys, dad's strict requirements will make boys learn to examine their own behavior and learn to take responsibility. Boys will also better observe and imitate men's language and behavior from their fathers and show their masculinity day by day.
In the communication between father and daughter, daughters can also come into contact with good and clear male role models from an early age to distinguish the differences between men and women, which is more conducive to cultivating girls' femininity, and will also be influenced by their fathers' easy expression of adventure, enterprising and independence.
It is under the background and contrast of mom and dad that children can better understand the meaning of men and women and make their gender roles form healthily and smoothly.
3. Conducive to the baby's social development
A mother's love is delicate and gentle, while a father's love is bold and unrestrained. They express their love in different ways and give their babies different feelings. They got the emotional wealth of society from their father. A baby with a father's love can get a normal personality development.
4. It is smarter for dad to take care of the baby.
A recent study in the United States shows that children raised by men have higher IQ, better grades in school and more success in society. Cheng Mochu, an economist in parenting education, pointed out that fathers have a stronger purpose in educating their children. What qualities and talents the father wants to cultivate and develop are generally planned in his mind, while the mother is worse in this respect. In the cultivation of living habits, fathers can better educate their children to be independent, decisive, brave and adventurous.
5. Fatherly love is beneficial to the development of logical thinking.
Studies have shown that fathers have a great influence on the development of infants' mathematical and logical abilities. Babies who get along closely with their fathers do well in math. In contrast, the advantages of babies who are often with their mothers are mainly reflected in their interest in new things.
6. Cultivate children's adventurous spirit
When playing games, fathers and babies mostly like to play sports, technical and intellectual games with their children, and by virtue of their innate male characteristics, such as perseverance, depth, decisiveness, independence, enterprising and cooperation, they often encourage their babies to try new games, encourage them to explore bravely and overcome difficulties independently, which will better promote the development of their bodies, intelligence and personality.
7. Make your baby creative
From the perspective of educational methods, fathers generally encourage their children to do things by themselves, while mothers prefer to help their children do what they can.
8. Give your baby support and confidence
In the baby's heart, maternal love is everywhere, around him, but for my father, it is only when there is a major change that I remember that my father is the heaviest position in my heart. Cheng Mochu, a family of parenting education, pointed out that especially in the process of growing up, they are more likely to think of their father at major turning points in their lives, which is a spiritual strength for them.