It is said that there is something wrong with the child. Parents should first do a good job of self-examination. As long as parents do well, children will naturally not be too bad.

This means that when we have a child, the child is our own mirror, and both good and bad can be seen in the mirror.

Blood relationship and love for children make us want our children to be excellent, and we will try our best to correct our own shortcomings.

This truth can be known as long as you consciously learn how to be a qualified parent or a conscious parent, but it is really difficult to do it.

Everyone has his own family background. Some people are lucky to live in a family environment with a good overall atmosphere, while others have a poor growth environment. The negative influence of a poor family on a person is that it is deeply rooted and difficult to change.

Just like in a chapter of a parenting program called Super Parenting Teacher, a mother taught her children to be very violent. As long as the child makes a mistake, he will be whipped by hanging clothes. It's really pathetic to look after the children. When the parenting teacher traced it down, I realized that this mother was treated like this by her own mother when she was a child.

I don't know how it evolved later, and whether the parenting teacher changed the mother's education mode. But it can be inferred that even if the mother is aware of her own problems, it is difficult to change.

It is more difficult for adults who have great problems in their own family to educate their children, because they must first educate themselves and change themselves, and it is the most difficult to change themselves.

Although it is difficult, for the sake of children, we must make up our minds and consciously change our bad personality step by step.