Curved eyebrows, sweet smile. Hong Tao, who doesn't talk, is the little dragon girl who called "Brother Pig" softly in "Pig in Spring". But when it comes to talking, the loud voice and the hearty laughter made her instantly pick up the atmosphere. Because of the same name, everyone tacitly called her "Little Hong Tao". Over time, the word "small" sounds more painful and loving. From the very beginning, Hong Tao Jr.' s four identities were impressive: the champion of the National Synchronized Swimming Team in the National Games, the flying champion of Golden Rooster and Golden Eagle, the wife of Xu zhēng and the mother of Xu Xiaobao. From athletes to actors, to being a mother, every gorgeous turn is a growth, which has made her who she is now.
Unexpected curtain call and opening
Hong Tao Jr. said that she started synchronized swimming because there was no place to think during the summer vacation. As a result, a promise kept her 10 years. 1983, 1 1 year-old Hong Tao was officially selected for the Beijing synchronized swimming team. 10 years, won various awards at home and abroad. The curtain call of sports career is as accidental as the opening. 1993, Hong Tao Jr. was selected by Jiang Wen to star in Sunshine Grandson, and then entered the film and television circle.
Hong Tao's character is solid and profound. Hua Dan's strength, but not Hua Dan's ambition. "Actors are different from hosts and singers. We want to create characters, not ourselves. It is useless for me to play Hong Tao so well. My task is to create several roles. I can convince you that every role I play is because people don't know what Hong Tao is like. Once they have a thorough understanding of what Hong Tao is like, they will wear colored glasses to see every character I create. So it doesn't matter what I am. You like my role, and my work is very meaningful. "
Simple love flows through the years.
Hong Tao Jr. and Xu zhēng met because of the TV series "Pig with Bright Spring", and then they came together. They don't have too many flashy decorations, but they seem to be a down-to-earth match. She said he was also a teacher and friend. "We both have gentle personalities, share the same work and life concepts, and appreciate and respect each other. If we don't become husband and wife, we will become close friends. "
The two did not create too many romantic memories, but simple love flowed through the years. "Xú Zhēng and I both want to downplay the roles in our lives and make the audience pay more attention to the roles we create. We have a tacit understanding on this point. We don't want others to pay attention to our lives from the beginning. "
Being so low-key about their lives, she has never been careless about Xu zhēng's career. "Mom and Baby: Men on the Embarrassment Road-Embarrassment in Thailand" is the first work directed by Xu zhēng, right? Hong Tao Jr.: "To be precise, this should be his first film directed by an independent director. In fact, he has done a lot of similar work before, but he asked not to be named because he didn't do it independently from beginning to end. I think this is right. He accumulated silently in order to hand over a complete thing one day. This is not a process of seeking fame and profit, but a process of realizing one of his wishes. For a person, no matter what he does, realizing his wishes is the greatest reward and value. " She understands his efforts and supports him to accumulate strength silently and make a solid progress towards success. They have each other, and tacit understanding is their greatest show off.
Motherly love overshadowed the winner of the film.
When Xu Xiaobao was born, Hong Tao Jr. was an old woman. But before Bao Xiao arrived, she didn't seem to realize too much hard work. Pregnancy in October seems to be the lingering shadow of many mothers, but she talked about that time is particularly brilliant. "I think this may be my luck. I haven't vomited, and I have no reaction during pregnancy, and I am in a good mood. I just think there is finally a justified reason to eat seaweed all day and gain weight as much as possible! After seven or eight months, I stopped working at all. I think it was the most leisurely time in my life! My friend said that she threw up when she was six or seven months old and couldn't get up on the sofa. I can't even imagine. How pitiful that is! "
Speaking of having a chance to own Xiaobao, "it is good for children's future education, and their minds are mature, so they can take fewer detours and be more rational." But she also admitted that if she could start over, she would have a baby earlier. "Being a mother at this age is really tired, and my physical strength and energy can't keep up."
Born "the king of children"
Hong Tao Jr. has played the role of mother in many TV dramas and been with many children. Speaking of children, she is so excited that her eyes can't wait to shine. "I have always liked children. Other actors in the play are busy doing their own things, and I will play with them as long as I have time. " I was once recognized as a girlfriend by a little boy who worked in a play, and I also worked with him and had a serious "love". She smiled from ear to ear when she told the story. The deeper we talk, the more we can feel the innocent side of her character. The child's innocence complements her. No wonder it is so popular with children.
The role of "mother" gave her new insight.
At the same time that Bao Xiao was born, her mother had just finished a major operation. On the one hand, we have to face a new life to support, on the other hand, we have to face our mother's old age. She has a deeper understanding of mother and life. "More than a year from pregnancy to 1 year old can be said to condense the essence of life. My mother began to feel sick as soon as I got pregnant. My mother just finished the operation for half a month and the baby was born, with both feet. It is because I am going to be a mother that I know more about the importance of my mother. My mother is very strong, especially afraid of dragging others down. The more she does, the more I sympathize with her. No one can love her more than me. "
Hong Tao Jr. admitted that after becoming a mother, there were fewer tears. Especially when it comes to children. During the performance of Four Generations under One roof, I heard that a very sensible little actor in the cast, who I always liked, actually came from a single-parent family, and my tears pattered away. "She has no father, but there is a large family in the play. She can call our parents and aunts every day, which is a very happy thing for her. " Then when I became a mother, I felt really worthless.
This change in role gave her a new understanding of the role. "In the play" Pregnancy ",as a mother's play, the understanding of the role is more mature and can be better grasped. Because actresses will begin to play mothers when they reach a certain age, actresses who really become mothers will feel more grounded in the process of acting, which is different from when they were young. I used to play mom, but at that time I needed to understand the role through observation and association. Now I know a lot about my storage. Like saving money, I can take it out at this time. "
The division of labor is clear, he is in charge of "teaching" and I am in charge of "teaching"
When talking about He Laoshi's division of care, Xiao Taohong changed her previous mirth attitude and seriously shared her experience with us.
"I took many parenting classes before I was born. I learned a very China theory: in education, the father should mainly take charge of "teaching" and the mother should take charge of "teaching". One of the meanings of' teaching' is to teach children knowledge; The other is to set an example for children, that is to say, what kind of person is dad, and children will imitate him in the future, because that is the first person that children admire. The mother's management of' education' means that the mother has the responsibility to give her children a sense of security. For example, if a child makes a mistake, he will instinctively cheat or ask his mother for help because he is afraid that his father will tell him. At this time, the mother should avoid it, let him face his father himself, and let the children know the interests of this matter through his father's seriousness. But after the end, the child's inner grievances still need his mother to appease, that is, to give him a sense of security. So mom and dad should have a division of labor.
One more thing, if you don't want to confuse the sex of the child, first of all, the father should establish patriarchy at home, which is given by the mother, that is to say, the mother must respect the father in front of the child. So that children will be more gender-aware when they grow up. "
A father who is captured by a child will exude sexy qualities.
Having said that, the photographer may have been infected by Hong Tao's happiness, but he couldn't help interrupting and proudly said, "I'm going to be a father!" Hong Tao then talked with him enthusiastically about his feelings in those days. "You are the happiest at this time. You don't have too many trivial things to worry about. Your mind is full of imagination all day. "
She showed us a new way to pat the baby to burp. It is not difficult to see that she is actively accepting the new concept of parenting. The speed of knowledge updating in the information age makes her sigh: "Knowledge is aging too fast, and mothers should keep learning."
When chatting with the photographer's father-to-be, Hong Tao recalled with a happy smile that when Bao Xiao couldn't speak, she sat face to face with Bao Xiao and chatted with her, feeling that there were only two of them in the world, and no one bothered her. She said that she especially liked to see her father holding the baby, and she used the word "sexy" when describing it. "Every father is holding his own child, just like holding his own masterpiece, full of tenderness and pride. When dad was captured by a child, his sexy qualities were exuded. "
It is my blessing to have such a mother-in-law
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a difficult problem for many families, but Hong Tao seems to have never been so troubled. Every time I mention this, Xu zhēng is full of gratitude and pride. How did she do it?
"Every family's situation is different. My mother-in-law has been in France for many years. She is a romantic, so she understands me in some ways. I often call her:' I am drinking coffee outside. "Do you want to come?" Soon my mother-in-law came dressed up. Usually my mother-in-law can't understand this, and they will feel wasted. I think it's my blessing that she can accept this.
I think mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well, usually because mother-in-law does well. Young people sometimes do things impulsively, and sometimes they do things without thinking. A good mother-in-law will know how to tolerate her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law will become sensible because of tolerance. So every time people say that you are a good daughter-in-law, I will say that it is because my mother-in-law is good and she knows how to tolerate.
I think we should respect our mother-in-law first. At this age, her life experience and experience determine that she is such a person. You must know her and accept her. She just has her own logic, there is no need to entangle her right and wrong, because it was formed by her for many years. So you have to respect her before you can discuss it. "
From the beginning to the end of the interview, Xiao Taohong was smiling without any troubles. But she also said that everyone's life is not easy. Maybe all the difficulties in her mouth were dispelled by a hearty smile. After gorgeous turns again and again, it blooms faintly. Today's little Hong Tao, the glory of maternal love has overshadowed the crown of the film queen. As she said, nothing is more important than feelings. Such a grounded "little dragon girl" really brought us more than a little surprise.