Home Visit Diary (1)
I went to my classmate's home in Lin Peng this morning. Lin Peng's house is two bedrooms and one living room, but it is also clean and tidy. Talking with parents, I learned that Lin Peng was born in Shekou. His mother used to work in an electronics factory, and his father used to be an employee of a state-owned enterprise. After layoffs, he opened a grocery store. Parents take care of the business in the shop and often leave him alone to play and study. The mixed environment of the commercial street allows children to enter and leave billiards rooms and other places from an early age. From this, I understand why Lin Peng called names and didn't like reading and fighting.
Lin Peng poured me drinks enthusiastically and showed me photos of my childhood. It seems that there is great potential for self-care. Xiao Lin Peng in the photo is chubby and cute. He told me that he likes jiaozi best, but he doesn't like eggplant, carrots and fat meat. Although he likes watching English cartoons very much, the CD player at home is broken and he hasn't watched it for a long time. Lin Peng's father was surprised. Obviously, he doesn't understand. Lin Peng told me that during the days when his leg was injured, Li Tian helped him go home every day, so he was very close to Li Tian. Then he showed me around his small room. When I turned around, I saw that my father couldn't help trying the CD player. It's really broken. I can see that he feels a little guilty.
The children's room was changed from the dining room, and the sheets and children's origami racing cars were randomly placed on a bunk bed. There are many compartments in the cupboard, but there is only one photo frame. In the whole room, I only saw an extracurricular Chinese that I only read a few articles.
I told the parents that he was very inattentive at school, obsessed with racing and bullying his classmates. And clearly pointed out that family education did not keep up, did not create a good learning atmosphere for children, and parents did not care about their children's learning and ideological growth. We agreed: first, every afternoon after school, grandpa is responsible for managing the children's homework and watching TV after finishing it carefully. Second, every day, parents take out a person to chat with their children, learn about school life or listen to their children read extracurricular books, and teach them to play chess or collect stamps. Third, urge children to get rid of swearing, swearing and slapstick.
Lin Peng was very happy when the teacher visited. When I left, he sent me downstairs. He also smiled and said that he would study every day and wear school uniforms as required.
This day's home visit made me feel that children are really the mirror of parents. How can children like reading if their parents don't study? It is said that the child is poor in learning. Did the parents insist on urging him to develop good habits? Or do you just want the tree to be straight, let nature take its course, and just say no matter what? For parents like Lin Peng, we need to strengthen guidance, improve their own quality and educators' awareness, and let them lead by example and influence their children by changing themselves.
Diary of Home Visit (2)
Write before home visit.
As a teacher and head teacher, to educate students well, we must first understand students, care about students and pay attention to their living conditions. It is hard to imagine that a student with poor living conditions will devote all his energy to his studies. So the first thing we should do is to get to know the student and his family.
With the popularization of modern communication tools, the contact between people becomes simple and fast. Telephone contact is a common way of home-school communication, but there is one of the most traditional and useful home-school contact methods-grid home visits. It can not only make teachers and parents communicate better, but also enhance mutual understanding and trust between parents and teachers; More importantly, teachers can learn about the family environment and upbringing of each student during home visits, so as to understand the living conditions of students.
Grid home visits give people the feeling of complaining to parents, such as students not doing homework at school, fighting ... asking parents to cooperate with teachers to take care of their children. Through grid home visits, we can know who left school recently, whose home is farthest, whose home is in good condition, whose home is in poor condition, who is a left-behind child, who is a single-parent family and who has any special circumstances. ...
However, this grid home visit is another grid home visit to students with the above situation, and brings festive greetings.
During the family visit
20__3 1 day 1 1: 50 or so
Fan Yingying is a child who has been reunited with her family. Her mother died unexpectedly when she was a baby, and her grandmother has been taking care of her ever since. The student is introverted and usually doesn't finish his homework every time. One is that he can't do it, and the other is that he doesn't have parental guidance. Her grandmother only cares about her life and doesn't care about her study at all.
As soon as we got to her house, we called her name. Her grandmother responded loudly in the yard. They politely welcomed me into the room, sat in a small chair and began to communicate. I didn't see her father during my home visit last semester, and I still do today. Her aunt said: She works every day, even working overtime at night, and she is not responsible for studying at all. She just signs her exercise book every day.
I took out the final exam paper and told her that I got 86 points. This rapid progress is inseparable from our own efforts. Looking at her grandmother's smile, I am also happy for her from the bottom of my heart. Thank you so much, teacher. Without your education, our baby Yin would not have achieved such good results. Then I analyzed the mistakes in the test paper with her, analyzed her problems and made clear the direction of our efforts. Finally, I brought her holiday wishes and school supplies.
? Then, I visited Le Zhiyi's family. This is an excellent student, but the family condition is not very good. Family expenses only depend on father's income and an elderly grandmother. Encourage her to study hard and succeed in the future. Bring her some holiday gifts.
Then, we went to Children's Home, a few new residents, and brought our holiday wishes.
Write after the home visit.
Education of children from single-parent families;
School education:
1, cultivate children's positive emotions, guide children to feel the love around them, and solve their psychological problems in time.
Family education:
Family is not only the starting point of personal life, but also the source of personality formation. In the family, parents and children get along with each other day and night, and they are most emotionally attached, and their parents have the most direct and strong influence.
1, create a happy family atmosphere for children.
2. Let children do what they can.
Diary of Home Visit (3)
When she came to Yuqi's home, only her mother and brother were at home. Not long after she sat down, her father called back and insisted on talking to me. On the phone, he expressed his deep apologies and apologized to me for not being able to go home. Actually, I understand that her family runs a restaurant on foot At this time, business is busy, how can she leave? But despite his busy schedule, he still remembers the teacher's home visit, and he is very grateful to the teacher for his respect.
Tu was transferred from Guanggu No.4 Primary School last semester. At that time, he didn't do well in the exam and had poor study habits, especially in class. But last autumn sports meeting, I discovered her specialty in sports, such as making her a sports committee member in the class. Since then, the child seems to be a different person. Help the classmates deliver lunch, and the whole team is not at school, helping to send and receive books. . . . . . As long as it is about class honor, she works hard. Moreover, my study habits have improved and my grades have improved.
Her mother listened to my introduction and expressed deep recognition for the child's progress. I also hope that we can be stricter with her and make her grades improve faster. In the process of communication, the younger brother who painted the kindergarten will drill around for a while, find something to eat for a while, and open the door for a while. The naughty and lovely appearance of the little guy makes us very happy. No wonder Tu is so responsible for the things in the class. It turns out that this is inseparable from her taking care of her little brother at home!
It's so happy to have a younger brother.
Diary of Home Visit (4)
When I left my home, I just contacted Ding's mother at three o'clock. She just sent Ding out for training. Her family lives in the last row of houses, and we drove twice to find it. In fact, Ding is very obedient in class. We're mainly here to find out about her family.
According to Ding's mother, Ding is very good in other aspects, except for her inferiority, and she feels that her father can't protect her like other classmates' fathers. For this reason, sometimes I dare not get along with other students, for fear of being laughed at by other students. I was very shocked after listening to mother Ding's words. To tell the truth, the classmates that Ding observed at school were completely different from those mentioned by her mother. At school, she is cheerful and lively, enthusiastic and generous, and she can't see the shadow of inferiority at all. It seems that children in family life are sometimes different from those in school.
The home visit at Ding's home is probably the least that our teacher talks in all the families, because she listens to Ding's mother most of the time. In the process of speaking, her tears spilled out of her eyes several times, and Du _ and Miss Xia handed her tissues.
When I left, a word popped up in my mind: poverty inherits the wind!
Diary of Home Visit (5)
Huo Shuai is a double poor student in my class. He not only has poor grades, but also has bad behavior habits. I can't sit still in class, I'm not attentive in class, I'm nosy, and my homework can't be finished on time. I like to chase after class. There were more than 70 words in the final exam last semester.
When I went to his house, I began to open up the situation of home visits by boasting advantages. Treat people warmly, be polite, love labor and be hygienic. My parents nodded, but I can't do it without studying. It will be difficult to do anything without knowledge in the future. It's not too late now, even if the child can't be a talent in the future, parents won't regret it and won't leave regrets. Strictness is love, and looseness is harm. No matter whether you teach or not, it will get worse. Parents say they also manage, but they can't manage well. Sometimes, if they don't manage their grandmother well, they will protect her. I analyze the reasons with my parents. The first parent can't manage well and can't sit down and teach calmly. Second, parents can't persevere, just take care of it when they are happy, ignore it when they are unhappy, or fight, and grandma will take care of it again. Third, maybe parents still don't know how to discipline, and their methods are improper. Immediately after that, help the children finish their homework, then review, and finally preview the next day's class. Parents mainly check and urge them to develop good habits. Now is for the future. Parents nodded again and again.
Finally, I give some advice to parents:
1. Parents and children are advised to pick them up and drop them off as much as possible, so as to communicate with teachers in time and exchange their children's study and performance in one day.
Second, parents and children are advised to make a good contract. They can't play until they finish their homework They will be punished when they come back from fighting at school, and let the old people leave when educating their children. It is necessary to thoroughly manage, educate while playing, and let the children take it orally.
Thirdly, parents are advised to accompany their children to read extracurricular books for half an hour every night. Cultivate children's interest in reading. In this way, children's reading comprehension potential will gradually improve and their grades will rise.
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