American psychologists believe that emotional intelligence includes the following aspects: first, understand your emotions. Because only by knowing yourself can you become the master of your life. The second is to properly manage your emotions. That is, you can regulate yourself; Third, self-motivation can help people get out of the low tide of life and start over. The fourth is to recognize the emotions of others. This is the basis for normal communication and smooth communication with others; The fifth is the management of interpersonal relationships. Namely, leadership and management ability.

The level of EQ can not be accurately expressed by test scores like the level of intelligence, but can only be judged according to the comprehensive performance of individuals. Psychologists also believe that people with high emotional intelligence have the following characteristics: strong social skills, outgoing happiness, not easy to fall into fear or sadness, more devotion to their careers, honesty and compassion, rich emotional life without crossing the line, and peace of mind when they are alone or with many people. Experts also believe that whether a person has high emotional intelligence is closely related to the education and training he received as a child. Therefore, the cultivation of emotional intelligence should start from an early age.

Psychological research shows that 3- 12 years old is the key period to cultivate children's emotional intelligence, which is called the window of opportunity. The emphasis of training in each age group is different. 3-6 years old is the age to fly and cultivate children's initiative; Children aged 7- 12 already have their own ideas, and parent-child communication is very important, mainly to cultivate children's diligence. Shenzhen Yaya Rabbit Children's EQ Paradise is an authoritative organization specializing in EQ education for children aged 3- 12. Introduce the compulsory course "A rising tide lifts a boat" and the lifelong benefit course for American children. Instead of teaching children the truth, we conduct experiential training through games, multimedia, scenario simulation, clarification and interaction of values, role-playing and so on. Example is better than words. This kind of immersion teaching helps children integrate into real situations, and helps them master correct interpersonal skills, as well as socially necessary skills such as emotional control and management, anti-frustration and problem solving. Let children grow up in happiness, stimulate each child's learning initiative, and teach them correct learning methods and skills. The improvement of children's emotional intelligence can also greatly promote the improvement of academic performance. I believe that the common development of emotional intelligence and IQ is the most ideal way to raise children. I also sincerely hope that every child can grow up healthily and happily.