1, money
When rich people give money to their children, they will explain the origin of the money to them, and cultivate their independence from an early age, regardless of the quality of their families; The poor give money to their children because they are afraid of giving less and the children will suffer. If they give more, they will tell them to give more. This kind of education will make children very dependent on their parents, so it is not easy to be independent.
2. study.
The rich guide children, teach them the methods and processes to solve problems, and guide them to do it themselves; Faced with this situation, most poor people directly tell their children the answer, but it will harm their children. Different ways of guidance in learning are doomed to make their children different in the future.
3. Education
In education, the rich pay more attention to children's study habits and quality, and don't care much about grades. As long as the children work hard, what kind of results can be accepted; The poor are different. In education, the poor generally only pay attention to their children's academic performance. As long as the children get good grades, they don't care about anything. If they don't do well in school, they will only pay attention to their own achievements. Different educational priorities will produce different children.
How to design a reasonable way of education
1, parents must set an example.
When children grow up with their parents, they will subtly imitate what they see and hear. Therefore, children's knowledge and life experiences are based on their relatives around them, and gradually cultivate their own abilities and cognition. If you want your child to be an excellent person, parents need to set an example by themselves and educate their children with a big picture.
2, don't be greedy, don't complain, if you want to gain something, you must pay first.
It's hard work, but it's necessary in order to get the corresponding reward. Parents should educate their children from an early age, look at things with optimism, and don't always complain. Only by working hard can we have tangible gains in the future. Don't always think about petty gains.
What kind of children will parents get from their education? Let children get in touch with positive thoughts and role models and gain their own experience, thus becoming a spiritual person.