It's simple, as long as you don't commit the following two taboos. Taboo 1. Laughing at children, saying some extreme language, reprimanding children with a rude attitude, only prohibiting non-guidance, limiting children's communication activities and scope, corporal punishment and suppressing children will only intensify contradictions and children may become worse. You should know that Rome was not built in a day, but coercive measures will not be effective and will aggravate family conflicts. Never peek at your child's diary or letters, and never eavesdrop on your child's phone. Article 31 No organization or individual may disclose the personal privacy of minors. No organization or individual may conceal or destroy minors' letters, diaries and emails; No organization or individual may open or consult the letters, diaries and e-mails of minors without legal capacity, except that the public security organs or people's procuratorates conduct inspections according to law in order to trace crimes. In other words, it is illegal for you to peek at children's diaries and letters and eavesdrop on their phone calls.

Taboo 2. Parents should not ignore their children's puppy love behavior and let it go, let alone support their children's puppy love. In that case, it will harm the child. Even if you turn a blind eye, you must ensure that your child's grades do not decline and ensure your personal and property safety.

And often communicate with children, let him speak his mind, you can prescribe the right medicine, find out where the child's mind is immature, and enlighten him!